Helen B. Eilts
November 20, 1922 ~ November 23, 2009
Eilts, Helen B., 87, of Wellesley, Massachusetts passed away peacefully in Benton, Kansas on November 23, 2009 following an extended illness. Helen was born in New York City, N.Y. on November 20, 1922 and was the daughter of Josephine (Freund) Richards and step-daughter of Theodore Richards. She was a graduate of Wellesley College in 1944 and received a Masters Degree in 1947 from the School of Advanced International Studies in Washington D.C. Helen joined the U.S. Navy Waves during World War II and served as an officer from 1944 to 1946. On June 12, 1948, she married Hermann Frederick Eilts in Tehran, Iran. For over 30 years, Helen and Hermann represented the United States through Hermanns service with the U.S. Foreign Service. This included assignments throughout the world, to include in Iran, Yemen, Saudi Arabia (twice), Iraq, England, Libya, Egypt, and in the United States. In 1979, Helen and Hermann retired from the Foreign Service, moved to Wellesley, Massachusetts, and joined the Boston University community. In 1979, her many years of service on behalf of our nation were noted by then-U.S. Secretary of State Cyrus Vance who stated “Her quiet, gracious warmth, her fluency in Arabic and profound interest in the Middle East earned her the respect, admiration, and confidence of peoples whose cultures are far different from our own. She exemplified the finest qualities of the American woman who serves abroad.” Helen was preceded in death by her husband Hermann Fr. Eilts, brother, Donald Brew, and her parents. She was always a loving and caring mother and grandmother and is survived by her sons, Conrad M. Eilts (Bahrain) and Frederick L. Eilts (Benton, KS.) and their families. Helen will be buried with her husband, Hermann, in Wellesley, Massachusetts. Memorial contributions may be sent to the Helen Brew and Hermann Eilts Scholarship Fund at Wellesley College, 106 Central St., Wellesley, MA 02481. Downing Lahey Mortuary East.
Inurnment will be in Wellesley, MA.






Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
Helen Eilts was an amazing woman, who with her husband served this country astutely in the Middle East for many years. With more Americans like them in policy making positions, 9/11 might well have been avoided. I, however, had the enormous good fortune to know Helen in private life. She was a dear friend. We never ran out of things to say to each other. Every conversation we ever had was full of life and laughter. She was always interesting and also kind. When I first met her I was nervous about her formality, because I am usually a pretty informal person. But I soon discovered her formality was more about courtesy than aloofness, and our friendship developed apace. I will miss her, but I know I will also conjure up my conversations with her for the rest of my life: see her expressive face and hear her lovely, intelligent voice. Assalam aleikum, Helen!
Fred, Kathleen and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Reading about your Mom and Dad reminds us of our own parents and how lucky we have been to have parents of the greatest generation. B
My thoughts are with your family during this time.