Ann Marie (Myhre) O'Toole

June 11, 1951 ~ March 15, 2020
Ann Marie (Myhre) O’Toole, age 68 (and ¾), shed her broken body and ran to the arms of Jesus on March 15, 2020. She left the world peacefully, on her terms, and after one last cup of coffee (two creams, two sugars). Her last day was a miraculous gift, spent snuggling and trading stories with her three daughters, two oldest grandsons, and her husband of nearly 45 years. She is survived by her husband, Daniel; stepson, Shawn O’Toole; daughters, Lori O’Toole Buselt (Brian), Jennifer Snyder (Ryan) and Amanda Mason (Kurtis), as well as grandchildren, Andrew and Christopher O’Toole, Westley, Eleanora and Parker Buselt, Kaden and Blake Snyder and Konnor and Reed Mason, all of whom lovingly called her “Gigi”. She also is remembered by siblings, Mike Thompson (Ruthie), Eric Myhre (Martha Bellew-Smith), Joel Myhre (Terry), Maggi Myhre (Pat Long), and sister-of-the-heart, Monica Dixon. She had a gaggle of sisters- and brothers-in-law and nieces and nephews, most of whom had kids, too. The O’Toole Clan is strong, as will be the party held to honor her life once toilet paper is back in stock and those aged 70 and above are cleared for travel.
Ann, who was born June 11, 1951, was eager to be reunited with her parents, Ret. U.S. Air Force Chief Master Sgt. Burnell K. and Doris Myhre. She spent most of her life as a self-proclaimed Futures Investor, pouring her heart and love into her children and those lucky enough to know her. Ann was known for her bright smile, quirky sense of humor and her talent and skill for sewing, quilting and crocheting. Ann never knew a stranger and had friends near and far, many of whom still cherish her handmade gifts. Though she graduated high school in Hawaii, she never learned to dive and always preferred sunbathing in the shallow end of the pool.
Ann spent the last 12 years of her life battling COPD. Her biggest goal was to live long enough to foster relationships with her grandchildren, which she did. Her family will be forever grateful she achieved that goal.
Regretfully, due to the developing pandemic, the family is hosting a small and private Funeral Mass on Friday, March 20 at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church followed by a Graveside Service at Resurrection Cemetery in Wichita, Kansas. There she will rest near a shade tree where she will be joined by her loving spouse MANY years from now. Immediate family should contact Lori O’Toole Buselt to request details to view a video of the service.
In lieu of flowers (or coffee, whiskey or meals) the family requests memorials to be made to the American Lung Association (action.lung.org/goto/AnnOToole). In lieu of the funeral Ann deserved, the family invites you to share tributes, photos, video toasts and respectable selfies on social media using the tag #WeRememberAnn.
What a beautiful and well-deserved tribute. Ann funny, kind, clever and a wonderful wife, mother, Gigi, and fellow MIL. Four of my favorite memories of our times together (other than when Westley, Elly and Parker were born) include having garage sales and counting how many sales the “ugly candle” sat on a table. It was one of the few items we always packed away for the next sale, just for grins. Another special time was the very fancy tea party Lori, Amanda and Jenny hosted for Ann, Grandma Cracraft and me and at which hats were to be worn. The sew-ins where we worked on quilts were always fun even though Ann ALWAYS made more progress than I did. One more special time together was our trip to Colorado when we all stayed in the condo, had some great food and very tasty beverages. We sometimes laughed so hard we cried. All of us will miss Ann tremendously, none more than Dan, Lori, Jenny, Amanda, Sean, her SILs and all of the grandkids. We are all blessed to be loved by Ann and to love her back. Have a blast in Heaven, Ann! I can’t imagine you will just “rest in peace!” Love you! Janice
How do I put a lifetime in a note? She was the best wife, I know. She stood her grounds when needed to, and she gave into Dan’s needs when he needed her to do so. She was the best Mom. What Mom makes her toddler bring all their clothes into the living room, dump them all into a pile, then together sort through them and either pass the clothing down to the younger sister, or out for the garage sale? Teach her children to do their own laundry at a VERY young age?? Teach her children the meaning of respect for their Dad??? The best Mom! Annie was the best of friends, ever. We dressed up like clowns, made ducky shorts, planned meals together, played cribbage and she always took “2 because I’m cute”, talked on the phone, wrote letters!!! The best Friend ever, my Sister of the heart, forever. Love you all!!
Our deepest condolences to Dan, Lori, and all the family. It was a joy and blessing to know Ann, and the times we were able to spend with her will be memories to cherish forever. Prayers of support and healing headed your way.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
She was a doll! I just wish we’d have met her sooner! She’s in God’s hands now. Love and Texas hugs!
Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for the whole family.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.