Ella Mae McGuire

November 8, 1927 ~ February 14, 2021
Ella Mae (Frass) McGuire completed her life with us peacefully, with joy and smiles in the early hours of February 14th. Ella Mae was preceded in death by her husband, William F. McGuire M.D., her son, William F. McGuire Jr., and her sisters Teresa Weber and Esther Frass. Ella Mae began her life in Canadian, Texas on the 8th of November, 1927, and grew up on one of the largest ranches in Texas.
Ella Mae loved her card games, particularly playing with her partner, Bessie Letourneau, with whom she won a months’ long bridge tournament at Blessed Sacrament.
Ella Mae introduced her nine children to art and travel, taking some of them to all forty-eight states.(Sorry Alaska and Hawaii.) She saw all nine of them graduate college, with five of them earning graduate degrees. Though she did not finish college, she was accepted to Stephen’s College at the age of fourteen. During World War ll, Ella Mae left college to work for the Kansas City Southern railroad where she was “bonded for $1,000,000,” as a courier making bank deposits. Who would have imagined that for a young woman from an isolated ranch in Texas Panhandle?
In addition to being a past active member of the Monican Circle, the Serra Club, and the Legion of Mary, Ella Mae generously supported many charities and religious orders.
Ella Mae was fun! Early in her marriage, she and her husband enjoyed dancing. Bill and she were quite the dashing couple. She also loved jokes, a few pranks, and quoting Mae West: “When I am good, I am very good, and when I am bad, I am even better!”
Yet Ella Mae was very wholesome and devout, daily praying the Rosary, the Angelus, the Divine Mercy Chaplets and more prayers. And how Ella Mae loved her family, and they loved her. While still quite lucid, all of her children and many grand children and great grand children sent videos, made phone calls and video conferences that Ella Mae described her last days as “A love fest!”
Ella Mae is survived by her sister, Bette McDaniel, and her children, Madeline McGuire Goletz, of Madison, Connecticut; Camille McGuire, of Wichita; Emily McGuire (Steve Yost,) of Grantville, Kansas; Eileen Lovell (Mark) of Pittsburgh, Tim McGuire, of Wichita; Sharon Schultheis (Udo) of Macomb, Michigan; Michelle McGuire Hook, of Dallas, Texas; and John McGuire of Arlington, Virginia. Ella Mae is also survived by twenty-one grandchildren, fifteen great-grandchildren, and three great-great-grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews.
Ella Mae enjoyed the best care possible by the staff at St. Teresa’s hospital, her family nurses, Jane McGuire and Miriam Milligan, and the staff of Harry Hynes Hospice. Thank you all so much!
The Rosary will be Thursday, February 18, 2021 at 6:00 PM at Downing and Lahey East Mortuary, and the Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated this Friday, February 19, 2021 at 11:00, at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church.
Please consider making a donation to the Center of Hope in Ella Mae’s honor.
Sending our love. The family of Mary Jane Mason (Davis)
Ella Mae was the most friendly, kindest woman ever. We shared many special times in our lives, over many years. I always enjoyed our most recent visits at Dillons. I will miss her sweet smile. Xoxo Lois Daniels.
Ella Mae: A force for good. Deliverer of abundant compassion. Life-long kindness of providing a listening ear when life’s trials struck. Exuded the love of a sister to my Mom. Patient mentor. Humility to be admired and replicated. An earthly journey practicing her faith, evident by gifts of hope and charity. Weathered life’s sorrows and challenges with strength and poise. Intellectually sharp as a tack yet humble with this gift. Provider of best-tasting snacks!, devoured by her multitude of children, grandchildren, and nieces & nephews! Indelible, fond memories of years of holidays spent with our families. The memory of your infectious laughter will bring a smile for decades to come. A lover of life! She exuded much true, perfect, and sacrificial love in her near century of living. Apropos that she died on St. Valentine’s Day as she was a lover of life, sprinkling this virtue on folks far and wide during her earthly journey. Perhaps the day of her passing was intended by her Creator to be a sweet reminder of the person who brought much love and joy to family and friends. You will be long remembered as bearing light in a world often filled by darkness. May the memory of your light be a comfort to those who deeply miss you. Until we meet again… Love, One of your many nieces
Lovely woman of whom I met through her son Tim. She raised a kind , thoughtful generous son. Warm thoughts for the McGuire Family. Joan H.
Ella Mae was the sweetest, kind and interesting woman I have known. We shared many experiences over many years. And, I loved the family thank you. I loved the pic of Ella Mae as a younger woman. Sweet memory. Lois Daniels