Phyllis L. Miller
July 15, 1930 ~ August 11, 2024
Phyllis L. Miller, a beacon of love and courage, passed away on August 11, 2024, at the age of 94, in Wichita, Kansas. Born on July 15, 1930, in St. Francis, Kansas, Phyllis was known for her unwavering faith and the boundless love she extended to everyone around her. Her life was a testament to the strength of the human spirit, facing the challenges of Inclusion Body Myositis with a grace and resilience that inspired all who knew her.
Phyllis's early years in St. Francis, KS were filled with the simple joys of small-town life, which shaped her into a woman of humility and compassion. She carried these values throughout her life, touching the hearts of many with her kindness and warmth. Phyllis's Catholic Faith was the cornerstone of her existence, guiding her through life's trials and triumphs with an unshakable trust in God.
Phyllis was married to her loving husband Don for over 50 years. They raised their six children at St. Patrick's Church, Wichita. Phyllis was a lifelong member of the altar society and leader with the Girl Scouts. Phyllis loved to garden, especially vegetables and roses. She enjoyed sewing, specially making clothes for her daughters. She would never turn down a good game of pitch or scrabble with her family and friends.
As we bid farewell to Phyllis L. Miller, we celebrate the remarkable life she led and the countless lives she touched. Her memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those she loved, a constant reminder of the beauty of a life well-lived. Phyllis's journey on this earth may have come to an end, but the impact of her loving, courageous, and faith-filled spirit will endure forever.
Rosary will be at 7:00 pm, Friday, August 16, 2024, at Downing & Lahey East Mortuary.
Funeral Mass will be at 10:00 am, Saturday, August 17, 2024, at St. Jude Catholic Church.
Preceded in death by her parents, William and Lyda Rogers; husband, Donald Miller; son-in-law, Jim Hagan.
Survived by her sons, Mark (Loretta) Miller of Wichita, Philip Miller of Fredonia, KS; daughters, Marcelene Monroe of Waukesha, WI, Constance (William) Simcox of Wichita, Bonnie (Brad) Whitworth of Buford, GA, Sharon Hagan of Wichita; 18 grandchildren; many great-grandchildren; relatives, and friends.
In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established with the Lord's Pantry at St. Jude Catholic Church, 3030 N. Amidon, Wichita, KS 67204.
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My name is Rose and I was lucky enough to meet Phillis at ViaChristi assisted living. When we moved our mom there from western Kansas she was so sad to leave her home of 80 years and so many friends. Luckily for her she had Phyllis as her next door neighbor. They became close friends and my mom was never lonely when she had Phyllis to share with. I thank Phillis so much for her friendship. My mom was Dorthea James and we lost her in 2019.
She was a good friend to my Mom when she moved to from the farm to assisted living. Within months they were fast friends. And of course played pitch. We found out she was my husband’s high school friends mother-in-law. Small world. Condolences to the entire family
Wow she was the oldest of our Miller family and truly a Saint of God always caring more about others than herself. Since I live in Florida I won’t make the service but my thoughts and prayers are with her wonderful family and may Our God bless and keep each one of you in His loving hand. ❤️ you all Kenny Miller
So very sorry for the loss of your mom! I am so sad that I may not be able to attend the services because of surgery! In grade school at St. Patrick’s, she was my scout leader and always a special memory in my life as was the whole Miller family! I was surprised to see that she was born in St. Francis, Kansas, because I was too! Wish I would have known that! She was a super wonderful lady and will be so missed! Please know that you will all be in my thoughts and prayers! With love!
Grandma we are going to miss you! You were a very important part of our lives and wanted to share a few things we have learned from you over the years.
Care for those in need. Like you helped care for grandpa, your children and each of us grandkids.
Take the time to go on a trip with a loved one. You never know what life brings.
Attitude is a choice we can each make daily and not dictated by our circumstances.
Follow through on promises. If a little kid bites you bite them back.
Put things in perspective. “Let there be peace on earth” must be sang before any presents are opened.
Play to win, but don’t you dare cheat at cards.
We are each dealt our hand but it’s our responsibility to play it correctly.
Don’t shoot the moon unless you have the ace and the deuce.