Gordon "Gordy" Larry Lee

July 8, 1944 ~ February 7, 2025
The Memorial Service for Gordon Larry Lee, 80, of Wichita, Kansas will be held on Friday, February 14th, 2025, at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church, at 861 N. Socora St., Wichita, KS 67212. Open viewing begins at 1:45 pm. The Rosary will be at 2:30 pm followed by the memorial Mass service at 3:00 pm with Father Jarrod Lies officiating. A meal follows the service. Interment will be held on Saturday, February 15th, at Saint Wenceslaus Catholic Cemetery (Google Wilson Cemetery on 2nd Street) in Wilson, Kansas. The time will be at 3:00 pm. Father Tony Kulandaijesu will officiate. A meal follows the interment at the Catholic Parish Center.
Gordon was united in marriage with Carla Bouska Lee at Saint Wenceslaus Catholic Church in Wilson, Kansas on July 8, 1967. Gordon was born the son of Frederick Finis and Della Reatha Lee (Gifford) on July 8, 1944, in McAlester, Oklahoma. After the family moved to Lorraine, Kansas, Gordon attended Lorraine Grade and Lorraine High School where he played sports and served as treasurer of his senior class graduating in 1962. Wanting to serve his country, upon graduation he immediately enlisted in the U.S. Army. Gordon completed basic training in Ft. Leonard Wood, MO, and was stationed in Ft. Sill in Lawton, OK. He also performed a tour of duty in Germany while serving in the Army from 1962 through 1965 as a Specialist E4, Tank Driver. Once honorably discharged from the Army, he went to work at Gates Lear Jet, then Boeing, in Wichita, KS, during which he rode as a reserve with the Wichita Police Department. In 1969 he was accepted into the Wichita Police Academy and became a police officer first serving in the Wichita Police Department as a community patrol officer, #587, working up to lead detective. He served two decades retiring on April 13, 1989. While serving as a police officer, he also obtained his Associate of Science Degree in Administration of Justice at Wichita State University as well as his Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice. He became a member of the National Fraternal Order of Police (FOP), Wichita Retired Police Officers Association, and a lifetime member of the American Legion receiving in 2024 a certificate for distinguished services in the U.S. Army. Dr. Carla Lee, his wife, was a cofounder of the local chapter of the FOP Auxiliary. When preparing for retirement, Gordon and Carla opened Lee’s Grading, he as President, and both as co-owners from 1975 through 1995, serving the Wichita community by providing the final grading services of over 5,000 homes, and including snow plowing. The initial tractors used were purchased and fully restored, one a 1949 Ford tractor owned by Gordon’s parents, Frederick (Della) Lee, and the second, a 9N Ford tractor owned by Carla’s father, predeceased Frank J. (Christine Rose) Bouska. Gordon and Carla enjoyed displaying these tractors in the Czech Festivals in Wilson, Kansas winning multiple awards including first place.
Gordon knew no strangers, as he was a good listener and had a good sense of humor and had many friends from every stage of life, in the police force and in his community. He loved speaking by phone with his sister-in-law, Janet Wright, almost daily. He was gifted with common sense, problem-solving skills, a strong faith, moral courage, with a deep understanding of justice. He was an excellent communicator, a quick thinker, and knew how to counsel with grace. He was a devoted husband and protector. As a detective testifying in the courtroom, he had a commanding, authoritative, presence and was well-respected by attorneys and Judges. “What Gordon testified to was relied upon because of his morality, accuracy, and focus on the truth.” Gordon also believed in safety first in work, landscaping, and in play, and had a love for a box of chocolates. Gordon loved sports all his life. During high school the Huskies’ team won first place in Regionals for Class 1A schools in Brookville, KS. During summers he also often helped plow fields for Lorraine farmers and then played baseball for the American Legion in Ellsworth, KS.
Gordon was preceded in death by his parents, Frederick and Della Lee; by his sisters, Marvelle C. Harris (Roy B); Wilma R. Eilrich (Ray); Reatha M. Paddack (Hershel); by his brothers, William Lee, Benjamin Lee, Fred Lee, Jr., Lowell G. Lee. Gordon is survived by Dr. Carla Bouska Lee, his wife, his two sisters, Lunell Joy Baker (Wendell) of Rowlett, Tx, and Linda June Newsom (Gene) of Wichita, Kansas; and many nieces and nephews, namely the children of Marvelle: Roy (Cathy) Harris of Salina, KS, Marilee (Mark) Cox of Wichita, KS, and Kathy Sokol-Diekmann of Wichita, KS; children of Joy Baker: Becky (predeceased DuWayne) Bennett and Lori (Brian) Radovich; the children of Reatha (Hershel): predeceased Robert Paddack and Paul Douglas Paddack; children of Wilma (Ray), Steven (Tiffani) Eilrich; children of Lowell (Cathy): David Lee; children of Fred (Ruth), James Daniel, predeceased David and Keith Lee; and voluminous great nieces and nephews. Gordon and Carla have seven Godchildren, namely, the son of Ron Bouska: Ronald Bouska, Jr.; the children of Gaylene Bouska (Lenny) Altman: Jonathan, Matthew Charles, and Katherine Altman; the sons of Charles (Sally) Bouska: Scott, Shane, and Sasha Bouska. All who adored their Uncle Gordy and Aunt Carla, as both of them taught and were interested in each of their lives like their own children.
Gordon’s favorite flowers are red roses. Endowment donations can be made to the WSU Foundation and Alumni Engagement at www.foundation.wichita.edu/memorials-honors/ <http://www.foundation.wichita.edu/memorials-honors located at 4205 E. 21st St. N, Wichita, KS 67208, specifically in studies for Police Officers pursuing degrees in Criminal Justice; or the Wichita Police & Fire Foundation at PO Box 782736, Wichita, KS 67278, where Gordon was Member #448. Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary.
One summer I stayed with Larry a month or so in 73 abouts, and had a fun time going to the pool with the girl next door and playing with his police German Shepard Gretchen.
Those were good times and landscaped a few yards too.
Rip Larry and Gretchen,both are together now. ❤️
If there ever was a family man it was Gordon. He was highly revered by all of our family. He would come by our home daily to visit his mother. When Lowell was having health problems he would drive by our house daily to make sure everything seemed normal. I am posting two pictures to share. One picture I captured of his mother and him on an afternoon drop by visit. The other picture I have always loved of Gordy and his brothers, Lowell and Fred along with brother in law Gene Newsom. They always gathered together for man talk in their T’s and shorts. If you look closely Fred has something in his pocket that added to the conversation. I hope Carla and other family members will enjoy these photos. Catherine Martin (Lee)
Rest Gordon, until you hear at dawn, the low, clear reveille of God. Thank you for your service to this nation. U.S. Army.
Thank you Gordon for your service to the City of Wichita. Career Wichita Police Officer.
My sympathies to Gordon’s family, friends and loved ones. Godspeed Gordon.
Peace be with you, Carla, your family, and friends. The Wichita Police and Fire Foundation.