Neal Eric Vandeventer
September 30, 1960 ~ November 19, 2025
Neal Eric Vandeventer, age 65, passed away November 19, 2025, at his home in Wichita, Kansas.
He was born on September 30, 1960, in Wichita, a son of the late Harvey and Reba Vandeventer.
Neal graduated from Wichita State University with a Bachelor’s degree in Finance and remained a steadfast supporter of Wichita State sports. He had great enthusiasm for watching sports, anything involving a ball. Neal worked his way to Assistant Store Manager at Dillons before moving into the IT field in the banking sector at Emprise Bank. His career was marked by a commitment to excellence and service.
Neal is survived by his brother, Harold Vandeventer (Carol) of Manhattan, Kansas. He was preceded in death by his brother, Mark Alan, and his parents, whose memories and values he carried with him throughout his life.
Neal’s life was a testament to his love for his community, his family, and the simple joys of a game well-played. His legacy of kindness and enthusiasm will be remembered by all who knew him.
A celebration of his life will be held Tuesday, December 9, 2025 from 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM, at Downing & Lahey East Mortuary. Graveside Service will be at 2:00 pm, Thursday, December 11, 2025, at Carney Cemetery, Carney, Oklahoma.
In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established with World Central Kitchen, P.O. Box 96538, Washington, DC 20090-6538.
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Visitation: Tuesday, December 9, 2025 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Downing & Lahey East Mortuary
6555 E. Central
Wichita, KS 67206
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I found out about Neil’s passing after his funeral. I worked with Neil at Dillons where he first started with them, Store #26 (Lincoln & Hydraulic), and enjoyed our time together for many years. We both ended up in similar careers. His was IT and mine was accounting. I knew that Neil was a WSU hard core fan way back then, and I miss our conversations and his old black chevy. I trust I find him again in our next life beyond. I’m sorry his family has to suffer this loss, till they see him again, but I’m sure he is getting caught up with your mom and dad and his other brother.
I met Neal on social media. We both loved sports and softball. He had the best sense of humor and would always make me laugh with his humor. I miss him and wish I could have only met him sooner in life. I’ll always carry you close to my heart. You will never be forgotten!! I love you Neal!!