Care Provider FAQs

First Contact

Notification and Communication:

Initial communication with the family is handled through phone calls and an at-need arrangement conference, which takes place in person with a funeral director.

Downing & Lahey Mortuary staff.

East Wichita: 316.682.4553
West Wichita: 316.773.4553

Initial Notification:

If the family is present at the time of removal, a date and time for their at-need arrangement conference will be scheduled at that time. If the death occurs during daytime hours, and the family is not present, they will be contacted once the deceased is in the care of the funeral home. If the death occurs overnight, the family will be called between 8:00 am and 9:00 am the following morning.

The family will be contacted by a member of the Downing & Lahey staff. The Downing & Lahey staff member will ask questions about the family’s wishes and will go over what is needed at the at-need arrangement conference.

Logistics and Timing:

During business hours, a funeral director can is expected to arrive within 30 minutes of the death call. Any delay or extended timeframe will be communicated to the family, hospice or hospital at the time of notification. During evening or overnight hours, a funeral director can be expected to arrive within one hour of the death call.

Our phone lines are answered 24/7.

East Wichita: 316.682.4553.
West Wichita: 316.773.4553.

When the death call is received, we will ask all necessary questions. You can expect to be asked for the following information:

  • Name of the deceased
  • Date of birth
  • Date and time of death
  • Location of the deceased, including any specific restrictions (e.g., upstairs, downstairs, narrow hallways, room number, etc.)
  • Name, relationship, and phone number of the next of kin
  • Name of the physician who will be signing the death certificate
  • Whether any family members are
  • Weight of the deceased

Transportation Details:

A funeral director or a member of the Downing & Lahey Removal Team will come to the place of death to take the deceased into our care. The deceased will then be transported to the funeral home location chosen by the family, Downing & Lahey East or West.

Transportation is completed using cots and black Honda minivans. If additional considerations are needed to safely complete the removal, please notify us at the time the death is called in (e.g., use of a sling, larger cot, etc.).

Handling and Preparation:

Once in our care, each deceased individual is given an ankle identification tag, any jewelry being worn is cataloged, and the deceased is placed into refrigeration.

The deceased’s features are gently set to provide a more natural and comforting viewing experience.
This includes cleaning the face, brushing the hair, closing the eyes and mouth, and positioning the body naturally. A viewing prior to cremation is required and may take place at the time of removal, during the at-need arrangement conference, or at a scheduled time. If embalming is chosen, the deceased will also be dressed and cosmetized and made available for viewing at a time agreed upon by the family and funeral director.

Documentation and Authorization:

No documentation is required prior to taking custody of the deceased.

The funeral director or removal team member will sign any documentation required by the family, hospice or hospital at the time of removal. The funeral home does not require any documentation to be signed at that time.

Legal and Regulatory Compliance:

There are no legal requirements for the hospice facility. The family will need to meet with a funeral director to discuss final arrangements, during which the funeral director will guide them through all required documentation.

If the the family, hospice or hospital believes the coroner or police should be notified, we ask that authorities are contacted before the funeral home is called. If, after the deceased comes into our care, we observe anything concerning (such as bruising or lacerations that could indicate a recent fall), we will report this information to the coroner’s office, who will determine whether further involvement is necessary.

Costs and Billing:

Costs vary depending on the services, merchandise, and cash advances selected by the family. If a family has questions regarding pricing, we encourage them to contact us directly so we can better understand their wishes and provide an appropriate estimate. Our general price list is available on our website at www.dlwichita.com.

Regardless of the funeral home selected, families should expect outside charges for third-party items such as death certificates, newspaper notices, cemetery fees, and similar expenses.

Arrangement Process

Arrangement Process:

If the family is present at the time of removal, a date and time for the at-need arrangement conference will be scheduled then. If the death occurs during daytime hours, and the family is not present, they will be contacted once the deceased is in the care of the funeral home. If the death occurs overnight, the family will be called between 8:00 am and 9:00 am the following morning. If a family wishes to discuss arrangements prior to the death, we ask that an appointment be scheduled to ensure a funeral director is available.

We are open seven days a week. At-need arrangement conferences are scheduled with start times between 9:00 am and 2:30 pm.

Updates and Progress:

Families can expect near-daily communication with their funeral director or a member of the Downing & Lahey staff from the time of the arrangement conference through the funeral or service.

Their funeral director is the best point of contact. Families are also welcome to call either location (East Wichita: 316.682.4553 West Wichita: 316.773.4553) and will be directed to someone who can assist them.

Documentation and Legalities:

We will notify Social Security on the family’s behalf, file and obtain copies of the death certificate, notify the church and cemetery, and publish an obituary on our website and in any newspapers upon the family’s request.

Yes. Legal permits are required for cremation and for transporting a body across state lines. If cremation is chosen, a copy of the deceased’s Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare may be requested.

All completed documentation will be provided directly to the family.

Options and Decisions:

We are a full-service funeral home and can accommodate a wide range of wishes for cremation and/or burial. Both our East and West facilities have on-site chapels, and we can also coordinate services at churches or other locations in and outside of Wichita. Our East facility includes two on-site crematories.

Families receive clear explanations of all services and merchandise required for their chosen arrangements. They are shown our selection rooms and supported in making choices that best reflect their loved one’s wishes, their preferences, and their budget.

Personalization and Requests:

Families are encouraged to work closely with their funeral director to personalize the service as much or as little as they wish.

Yes. We encourage family involvement and can help coordinate meetings with the officiant to collaboratively plan service details such as music, speakers, personal artifacts and shared memories.

Yes. If a family wishes to assist with dressing, applying cosmetics, or styling hair, we can help facilitate that experience.

Yes. Families are welcome and encouraged to call or visit us to ask questions or make prearrangements prior to a death occurring.

Visitation and Viewing:

Yes. An identification viewing is required and encouraged for all cremations. For embalmed individuals, viewings typically occur closer to the service date, after dressing and cosmetizing are complete.

Each of our facilities has private staterooms where families can spend time alone with their loved one.

Finalizing Details:

The family and funeral director will work together to coordinate all service details, including date and time. We also coordinate with churches, cemeteries, and other locations as needed.

The funeral director is the primary point of contact.
Our phones are answered 24/7, and after-hours messages can always be left.

Costs and Financial Information:

Yes. Families will review an itemized funeral contract with the funeral director during the at-need arrangement conference.

Our payment policy requires 25% at the time of arrangements, with the remaining balance due within 30 days.

After The Service

Aftercare and Follow-up and Support Services:

Yes. During the at-need arrangement conference, families are provided with a brochure listing local grief support groups.

Yes. Families receive information about local grief support groups at the at-need arrangement conference.

After services are complete, we remain available to provide compassionate guidance, answer questions, and offer continued care and support.
Families can rely on us for assistance and direction as they move forward in the weeks, months, and even years ahead.

We utilize a digital aftercare program that sends a series of supportive emails to family members.
These emails include both practical next steps and grief support resources. Funeral directors and staff are always available.

Yes. Families are provided with a brochure of local grief support groups during the at-need arrangement conference.