Barbara Craig Queen

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Never judge a book by its cover has never been truer than for those who knew Barbara Craig Queen. People assumed when they met this petite lady with oversized red glasses that she might be a pushover, but they were wrong. For those who got to know Barbara, they found a family matriarch, astute business leader, revered teacher, dedicated volunteer, and a friend for life. She truly took interest in all that she met, whether it be a student, a farmer, or a care assistant. A connoisseur of chocolate and Diet Coke, she taught her grandchildren that dessert for breakfast was an acceptable way to start your day.Barbara, a proud, lifelong resident of Wichita, passed away on January 10, 2023 in Prairie Village, KS. Barbara was the second child of Austin Brown and Mildred Evelyn Craig and younger sister to Ellen Jeanette Craig Morgan. Diagnosed with asthma at age 4, Barbara spent much of her childhood reading books. This led to a passion for education and a lifetime of always improving herself through reading. Rarely did you not find Barbara without a book.After graduating from East High School, Barbara attended the University of Kansas, where she majored in English. While there, she started a family and welcomed her son, Barry, into her life. After college, the family moved back to Wichita and later welcomed Matthew. In the 70’s, Barbara went back to school to earn a degree in education and later a Masters in botany. She loved traveling across Kansas collecting samples of flower and fauna. She became a high school science teacher at South High, where she would teach anyone that entered her class with enthusiasm. Mrs. Queen had a reputation for being supportive of her students while still holding them accountable. She had a profound impact on the youth she taught. Barbara loved her family dearly, was always present for their activities, and endlessly proud of their achievements. Over the years she made countless trips to Kansas City and Fort Worth to assure she was a part of her grandchildren’s lives. She wanted her family to be well rounded people and supported this idea by taking them to musicals and museums (ranging from classical art to barbwire). She would always engage, asking what they were looking at and to put yourself in the place of the people that made or used the item.Following the death of her mother, Barbara took the lead in running the family farm business for 25 years. She was proud of her family’s heritage of homesteading in Kansas and made sure that heritage was protected to pass down to future generations. Barbara followed her mother’s example of giving back to the community. During her life, she served as a committee chair for the Chi Omega fundraisers, worked the phones at the public television telethon, served on school fundraisers and volunteered at the Institute of Logopedics. After her teaching career, Barbara focused her volunteer efforts on her passions of art, theatre and history. She served as a Docent for the Wichita Art Museum, volunteered at the Wichita Historical Society, served as a Member of the Guild for Music Theatre of Wichita, and was on the Board at Plymouth Congregational Church. She was preceded in death by her parents and sister, Ellen. She is survived by sons, Barry Craig Queen (Pamela) of Grapevine, TX, Matthew Craig Queen (Mary Ann) of Prairie Village, KS; grandchildren, Austin Queen (Megan), Kelsey Queen, Zachary Queen, Margaret Queen and Millie Queen. She is also survived by her nieces, Linda Meserve (Rick) and Sharon Mouton (Eric).Services will be at 11:00 am on Friday, February 10 at Plymouth Congregational Church, 202 N Clifton Ave, Wichita, KS 67208 followed by a reception in the Church Hall. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that a donation be considered for the Wichita Art Museum.Services in care of Downing & Lahey East Mortuary.

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  1. Mrs. Queen was a great lady, energetic, loving, and intelligent! My interest in science was driven by her passion to impart knowledge. Thank you Mrs. Queen

  2. Mrs. Queen was always full of life. I can remember walking into her biology glass at South, scared and wondering what the semester would be like?! She made class fun and exciting. I wish more people in the world had her passion. Fly high beautiful lady, you will be missed!

  3. Queen B! Oh my goodness! My 1st day of high school and my very 1st class was with MS. QUEEN. She offered me refuge from a world that was extremely violent and mean about people people who were gay. We didn’t even really use that word back then. I learned so much from her about biology, people, myself and the loads of insects. I would eat lunch with her in the classroom about once a week, and our discussions were adult, funny and extremely enlightening. My senior year, she signed my yearbook ” To one of my favorite Homo… sapiens.” At that point I had come out as myself And her acceptance and that short little sentence has remained with me for 42 years! This is what teachers should aspire to be, an incredible Queen B.

  4. I remember being in her class at South High and being her teacher’s aide (class of 1987). I remember her and her bottles of Tab and chocolate. She will be missed!

  5. Mrs Queen was my science teacher, my mothers science teacher and my husbands science teacher. She was an animated lady with a sunny disposition. She looked so sweet and tiny begind her podium. Our class would get pretty rowdy and she would be so patient waiting for us to quiet down. She was a wonderful teacher and touched the lives of so many.

  6. Mrs Queen was an incredible lady. I was lucky to be one of her many students. I have so many wonderful memories of her, from what she called, “the scruffiest heart I ever saw, to what she did, and didn’t do when I lost my sight. Mrs Queen was a great teacher, and a compassionate human being.

  7. Matthew, I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Memories of our childhood in Bel Aire flood back into my mind. Your mother was always kind to an ornery kid like me and I remember that she always offered cookies or something to drink whenever I came over to your house to play. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Lee Fisher

    • Lee,
      Thank you for the kind words. I have been thinking about summers playing baseball with your Dad as coach.

  8. We realized we weren’t going to be able to attend Barbara’s funeral because we are going to be out of town. She, as well as her parents, Austin and Mildred, have been a huge part of our/my farm-life since I was a child. Don’t remember a time this wonderful family have not been. I won’t go into complete detail, but my father, Wes, acquired this ground in a totally amazing way. Mr. and Mrs. Craig were out to check on this Section of ground many moons ago. Wish I knew the exact date, but only a guess of approximately 75 years ago. Anyway, things weren’t going very well, and Mr. Craig was a very astute businessman, and always believed in communication and more than anything, care of the land, as was Mildred’s passion. He was out visiting the land and got very upset about how the farm was being taken care of, was looking around as he was explaining his reasoning for being upset, (and believe me, he had 100% reason to be) and over his shoulder he saw Wes coming down the road with an open cab tractor and a 10’ one-way. He said if things didn’t change, he was going to give the ground to the man coming down the trail road. He and Mildred hopped in their car and literally drove across the Section right towards my Father. I’ll never forget how Dad would tell the story and how scared he was when this Lincoln came flying across the field right at him. Still tickles me to this day. Anyway, the two of them got out of the vehicle and Mr. Craig, whom was also a towering man, walked up to Dad, asked him his name and how he could get ahold of him in the near future, shook his hand, introduced Mildred, told him he may be getting ahold of him, hopped back in their vehicle and took off. Much to Dad’s surprise, within a year, he got a call from Austin and we have farmed it ever since. Sorry for this but had to tell a bit of the story.

    The 2 of them were the best! Loved as a kid when they would come out for a visit and we would all drive over and look at the land. They were always so proud of the land and spoke stories of our land and the other land they had. The one that stuck in my head the most as a kid was the story of the ‘Buffalo Wallow’! We have included a picture of it so everyone could see this. As kids we could always find arrowheads and even old pieces of broken ‘pottery’ looking items. Now that the 3rd Generation of Sterling’s is about to take over, Wes, my son, I want to start taking my Grandson, Wyatt, over to start exploring again, and possibly, if he becomes the 4th Generation to farm the Craig ground, he will always have this story deep in his heart.

    This all leads right into Barbara coming into my/our lives! She reminds me so much of her mother, and what a Beautiful, thoughtful, caring lady she was. She had the business side of her Father in her and the smiles and laughter of her mother. So, miss the times she would come out to visit, the times we would visit her at her Wichita home. The ‘Sterling Family/Farm’ will always have a special place in our heart for her and the entire family. The Pictures are mainly for her, to represent in a way the love she had for the Land, for Agriculture in general. She was nothing short of “THE BEST AND SWEETEST LANDLORD OF ALL”! We will miss her so very much, just as I have her parents, but know in our hearts she is excited about the ‘next generation’ building that Partnership and moving on!

    God Bless the Entire Family,

    With Love,

    The Steven Sterling Family and the Wes Sterling Family

    • Steve, what a lovely tribute to the history of our two families. Thank you for providing the historical context and I can see the big car rumbling across the field.

  9. Matthew, I am sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Like Lee’s comment, I also remember childhood fun in Bel Aire and hanging out at your house for New Year’s Eve a few times. Your mom was always welcoming and kind. I am sorry for your loss.
    Mike Jones

  10. Mom, I miss you each day and am truly impressed in how many people you touched. I learned more about you in your memorial than I knew about you in life as your son. I missed so much by being away but knew your love each and every day. I know that you are now at peace and know that you are with granddaddy and grandmother once again. Know that your love meant the world to your grandchildren and the memories you made will carry them through their lifetime. Thanks for your love and support throughout the years. Love you.


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