Carol Sue Denny

I’m one of Carol’s grandchildren, stepdaughter of Allen Denny (raised me since 1 yr old) and Maureen Denny. She was and is my Grandma. When I think of her I remember her for the love and support that she had for me, despite me not being her biological grandchild, she never treated me different. Always made sure I knew she loved me. Whether it was through her food (it was the best), her encouragement, making sure I was healthy and both mentally and emotionally strong.

One particular memory that stuck with me was one time when I was around 18. I was extremely depressed and staying indoors for long periods as a result. We went out to eat and after sitting down she looked at me and said something along the lines of “you look sickly/like a ghost, are you okay?” Lol, at first I was thinking dang grandma but I said ”I’m okay” (I wasn’t though and she knew). She said “make sure you get at least 15 min of sunshine every day, it’s good for you.” It was a simple basic comment at the time but as I’ve gotten older and been through more things in life, I’ve always reflected on that moment and recognized it as a symbolic moment of how she showed genuine love. She always said “I love you” but she expressed love also through action, concern and support. All she ever wanted for me was to grow into the person she knew I was in my heart and soul, to persevere and be strong. My mother passed away the year after and they both were kind hearted strong women that continue to inspire me to keep going, no matter how bad things are. I miss them both from the bottom of my heart and soul so very much.
I love you Grandma and I hope your soul is resting peacefully, flying high in heaven where you belong. Your love means the world to me still to this day ❤️