Cody Schuber
Schuber, Cody, 3, passed away Thursday, February 15, 2007. Visitation with family, 6:00-7:00 P.M., Sunday, February 18, Downing Lahey Mortuary West. Service, 2:00 P.M., Monday, February 19, Westlink Christian Church. Survivors: parents, Jason and Debi; twin brother, Cade; grandparents, Pat and Dean Roadhouse of Osborne, Terry Schuber, Tracy and Johnna Leach all of Wichita; great-grandparents, Opal Roadhouse of Osborne, Eunice McBroom of Wichita. Memorial donations to Cody Schuber Memorial Fund, c/o Downing Lahey Mortuary West, 10515 W. Maple, Wichita, KS 67209.
Visitation with family, 6:00-7:00 P.M., Sunday, February 18, Downing Lahey Mortuary West
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
P.S. After sending the greeting just now, Cody’s obituary popped back up on the screen. What a precious picture of him!!! Noting the grandparents location of Osborne, I don’t know them but I grew up in Smith County…the world gets pretty small doesn’t it? Love has no mileage boundaries, no matter how far or close the distance in miles…love to all of you!!!!!!!!! Sincerely, Ila
Jason and Debi, I am so sorry for your great loss. I saw Cody’s picture in the paper and my heart broke for you anf your family. You don’t know me, but, Jason, your brother , Damin, was a great friend to my son, Jason Christiensen. He also dies 10 years ago. I feel so sad for all of you, I really know the pain of grief. All I can offer as a suggestion is to feel your pain, and know that EVERYONE grieve’s different. Don’t listen to anyone that tells you how to grieve the loss of your beautiful little boy. I am so very sorry. jmch2698@sbcglobal.net My prayers are with all of you. Margie Christiensen, Abilene
Dearest Johnna & Tracy, Jason,Debi, & Cade, and the family of Cody. Our deepest sympathy to each of you. We can only imagine the loss you feel. I know you are a family of great strength and much love. It is a gift from God,it strengthens and blesses all of us. I pray that gift of love will multiply in each of you through this most sorrowful time. As we grieve, there is a great celebration in heaven when a saint comes home. Heaven, a place so Holy and perfect and beautiful we cannot fathom the glory. Know that Cody is walking with the King of Kings. God Bless you and comfort you. Sincerely & humbly yours, Shelley, Jerry, Matt, Cody and Rachael Kochs’ & Snyders’ Abilene, Ks.
words cannot express the sorrow we felt hearing of your recent loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you. helen george timberlakes neighbor
Dear, Debbie, Jason & Cade, Words could never convey how saddened we all were to hear about the loss of your boy, Cody. We have and will continue to pray for you and hope that you will find the strength to carry on and honor him. Please take whatever compfort you can in knowing that so many people are with you at this time, in mind, spirit and with heavy hearts. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Kitchens by Design – Indianapolis , IN: Dana Amato, Kristin Okeley, Lisa Stites, Lyndsay Hunt, Betty Alvey, Gene Able. Tammy Carey, Nancy Stanley, Suzanne Swain, Elaine Pitcock, Kelly May, Laura Swift, Johhny Bowling, Leo Passarelli & Michael Thornton
Debi, Jason and Cade, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I can’t imagine the pain you’re feeling. The pain of losing a loved one doesn’t ever go away, but it will get easier to accept as time goes on. Cody is in a much better place. He’s now your little angel! With love, James and Dana(Knutsen)Bond
I can not imagine the emotions that you guys are going through but only hope and pray that your pain will lessen as days pass. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this time. We are truly sorry for your loss. Dusty & Traci Wolters
There is nothing I can say to make things easier, but please know that Cody and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayers. May God bless all of you and I pray that you find peace and comfort within each other.
I was so sorry to hear about your sons untimely death. I have not stopped thinking about you since I heard. Having 2 small children myself, I cannot even imagine a tragedy like this occuring. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers here at Cherryworks. Sincerely, Angela Cherry Courtalis
Dear Jason and Debi, We are Tracy’s cousins from Salina, Ks, and are deeply saddened by the loss of your small son, Cody. Please know that we are keeping all of your family in our thoughts prayers…. God Bless, Russell Burger Family
Jason and Debi, There are, of course, no words to describe how sad the Wichita area is to hear of your loss. I am a teacher in a Catholic school and I cannot share how much my students and myself are grieving for your family. Take some comfort in knowing how many of us are praying for you during this time. Stay strong and put your faith in our Lord. God needed Cody for some reason we don’t understand. Trust in Him. With all my deepest sympathy, Jenny Palmer Augusta, KS
Debi & Family, We are deeply sadden to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Blessings, Mitch, Donna, Terri, Tammy & Drivers Kustom Karriers
Dear Jason,Debi,Jonna,and Tracy, I know your family must be suffering thru a million emotions right now. My heart grieves with you.I can’t say that I know what your going thru because I don’t but I believe in a God that is right now feeling every ounce of your pain. I pray that as you hold tightly to him he will reveal healing to you and your family. I’m truly sorry for your loss.
Dear Debbie, Jason, Cade & family We’re so sorry to hear about Cody. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God surround you with His comfort and love.
Debi & Family, Just a note to let you know how sorry we were to here of your loss. Our thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family. Wyoming Windows & Cabinets Lander, WY
I am in California, and was told of your tragedy by a friend in Wichita. I wanted to send a handwritten note, but am not sure of your address, so I am choosing this way to communicate with you. I write because I truly know how you feel. Many years ago, in 1967, my youngest son, Jeff, was hit by a car, and died, while in the care of a good friend of mine. I was young, and all I wanted was for someone who had been through this to tell me it was possible to survive the agony of it all. There was no one, until finally one day, I received a note from a stranger, who told me she had lost her son to the ocean. Her message to me gave me some strength to carry on. I still have it today. So that is my message to you. Please know that you can bear it and you can smile again one day. My darling boy is a precious memory to me now, I railed against people who told me this would happen at the time, who told me ‘time would help’, that ‘it was God’s will’, that ‘they had a three year old at home and knew how I felt…..’ I was angry and heartbroken. I decided that Jeff’s memory was to be cherished, and that I would carry on because he was a happy little guy and I wanted him to be remembered the way he was, not to be remembered because his mom was destroyed by his loss. Little by little, the guilt, the overwhelming desire to start that day over and make it different, the remembering the moment daily, weekly, monthly………all these burdens quietly lifted. I am thinking of you all, and I send you my most genuine sympathy. Laura George
Dear family of Cody, Greetings & love & a hug from Norton, Ks. I don’t know you folks but that doesn’t make this less sincere to say I was very saddened to learn of the horrific accident & loss of Cody’s earthly life. We received am e-mail prayer request for him after the accident from Ryan Johnson who is a friend of Cody’s uncle Daman Schuber (if I read it correctly). A verse I saw sums up about best my thoughts: ‘To let you know I care & wish I could soothe the empty place inside your heart where tears are born’. Know we can’t do that for you…only the Lord can soothe like that. I know we live in an imperfect world & I think He hurts knowing we hurt. I hope you won’t blame Him & turn from Him in bitterness but will feel the warmth of His love & enabling strength being offered to you for the accepting & following. One of the people I e-mailed the prayer request on to has twins. If that mother shared the horrific account with them on what could happen to them (she said she would)… I know we can’t reverse the situation that’s happened to Cody but hopefully even in the face of deep sorrow that maybe another tragedy or tragedies might be prevented through the awareness to others of what happened…including drivers where children might be whether they can see the street/road clearly or not. Yesterday on separate occasions I heard sharing about storms in life. Jesus truly is the Light in the lighthouse shining in this world…if we anchor to & in Him, His anchor really does hold through the roughest seas & offers stability even when the waters are much calmer from drifting. If you don’t know Him, please seek Him, if you do know Him, please keep seeking Him. We’ve heard a friend of ours share that after he lost his son, nothing anyone said made any sense to him until a lady shared that she had also lost a child. I admit I haven’t walked the shoes you are in but I am convinced God’s grace & strength has kept my head above water in coping with some other losses to death & some other rough situations. My husband lost his 1st wife to a 4 yr. battle with cancer & I’m confident it was God’s gace that kept his head above water as they fought that battle together & in coping with the loneliness that ensued following her death. James 4:8 ‘Draw close to God & He will draw close to you’. I Corn. 2:5 ‘That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.’ Please know that even if cards, greetings & calls thin out regarding the loss you are coping with, that God’s love for you being offered hasn’t thinned out!!!! Be it holidays, special occasions, birthdays etc., ordinary days & nights, He offers help to you, yours for the accepting & following. Please forgive the length of this but know it’s sincere & from the heart. You don’t owe us a reply but if you ever want to share back, please feel free to do so. If you ever want to e-mail, that’s fine, we’re pretty careful about sending e-mails so don’t worry about being deluged with a ton of forwards. Because His grace matters big time, you matter. Because of His love & in the grip of His matchless grace, Ila & Bob Virgil e-mail add: rvirgil@ruraltel.net snail-mail: 905 Hartford Norton, KS. 67654
just want you to know how often we think about you guys. We miss Cody and our hearts break with yours. We love you.
Dear Johnna and Tracy, Devastated to hear of the loss of your grandson, Cody. Bless you, his twin Cade, his parents and other grandparents. I am at a loss of words of comfort, as at this time. I will pray for you and yours and hopefully you will gain some peace. A Timberlake neighbor.
Dear Tracy & Family, We are so very sorry about the loss of your grandson Cody! Just know your all in our thought’s & prayers & remember the happy time’s he brought to your lives. Joanie Sherbert & family
Dear Jason, Debi, and family: I am deeply saddened by your loss. I pray that God will comfort you during this time. I can’t imagine what you must be going through. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Sarah Collins (Graves)
Although I don’t know your family, I wanted to take this opportunity to tell you how saddened I was to hear about little Cody. I have a set of twin grandsons and can’t imagine losing one of them. In watching them grow, the closeness they shared is remarkable. I know that little Cade will always have a part of Cody with him always. God bless you all and your family.
Debi, Jason and Cade, We send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Stay strong through this diffucult time. With our deepest sympathy, Legacy Building Specialties, Granby CO.
Debi, Jason and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We lift you and your family up to the Lord and ask for his healing touch. With Deepest Sympathy, Wood Concepts, Cozad NE
Debi, Jason & Cade, We are so sorry for your loss. We pray for your strength to get through this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debi,Jason,and Cade- Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all at this difficult time! There are no words to describe how sorry we are for your loss. May god hold you all close at this time and carry you through the sorrow.
Jason and Debi: I want you to know that fellow Christians around Wichita are praying for you as you are going through pain that I can’t even imagine. You have been in my prayers constantly. My heart, too, is with the grandparents and the young man involved in this tragic accident. Your loss of precious Cody hits so close to home as I am the grandmother of 3 year old twin girls, Jane and Kate. Losing your little Cody has deeply grieved our whole family. May God give you a peace that surpasses all understanding in the days, weeks, and months to come. I am also praying for Cody’s brother that God will fill the void in his little life. Please know that you are loved by people you have never met. My Sunday School class at First Evangelical Free upheld you in prayer Sunday morning. May God’s presence be felt as you begin each day.
AN ANGEL IN HEAVEN WAS NEEDED BY GOD. GOD TOOK CODY BY THE HAND AND LEAD HIM HOME. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU.
Debi – we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family
Jason and Debi, I am saddened to hear about the loss of your son, Cody. Your family will be in our prayers and if there is anything my family can do to ease your pain, we are here for you. May God be with you and give you strength through this tough time. Chris and Tracey Greeve Wichita, Kansas 316-640-5765
Debi/Jason: Somehow, Sympathy can’t begin to explain how we feel for you and the horible loss of Cody. We can only hope that God will bless you and your family and help you get through this. Hud & Darlene Artman Greenville, PA
We dont know one another but as a fellow christian I just want you to know how sorry we are for your loss and have been thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers. I am a grandmother myself and can not even begin to think of what grief you are suffering but I do know you are a loving and good grandma,mom,& dad so just rember the good times and know God is taking care of your little angel. A fellow christian
So very sorry to hear of Cody’s death. Let your faith guide you through the difficult time and may God’s arm surround you in his love.
We do not know one another, but I just want to take the time and tell you our sympathies are with you. My heart aches tremendously for you and your family. I to have a three year old and we were there 15 mins before. I can not tell you how much my heart hurts for you. Im so sorry. Its hard to accept, but he is in a much much better place, theres is no doubt in that. You will continue to be in our daily prayers as you take on this life struggle. Keep your head high and look to the heavens. God bless you.
Debi and Jason- Your in my thoughts and prayers! Stay strong and keep your chin up high, he is now in our saviors hands! If you need anything please let me know! Love you both!
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to your family on the death of your son Cody. When I first heard this story on the evening it occurred, my heart poured out to you and I prayed for a miracle. I am a child development educator and a mother of three children, ages 20, 16 and 5 and a grandmother of an active three year old grandson that has a striking resemblence to your son. As a mother, I want to send you my support and continued prayers. -I also hope that immediate state law changes would start taking place in these type of drive through areas to help protect children. This type of tragedy should never have happened. -My very deepest sympathies. Denise C. DuBois Newton, Ks
Dearest Debi, Jason and Cade, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May God help you through this and know that Cody is with Him. Darcy, Cisco and Chris Cabinets by Design Phx, AZ
Debi & Jason- Our hearts are heavy with great sorrow & sympathy for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Debbie/Jason Our deepest sympathy for you painful loss. May god give you strength and courage to continue… From your friends in NY, Josh, Sol, Lazar, Mikki, Izzy, Jay, Josef And the rest of the Kentco family.
Dear Schuber’s, Just a note to send our condolences and prayers for all your family–we’re thinking of you here.
Dear Cody’s Family, We are so sad about what has happened. We believe that our God knows and cares about this terrible pain you feel. You don’t know us but we have been praying for your family. We pray that God will give all of you strength and that you will know keep in your hearts that your precious son is safe in the arms of Jesus. Don and Robbie Hill, Emporia
Dear Jason, Debi, Cade, G-Ma Johnna & Family, It just breaks my heart. All I can do is pray every day that God may surround you with a legion of ministering angels to comfort, protect, and strengthen you all. ‘For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.’
My son, Kyle, attends preschool with Cody and Cade. We are so very sorry to hear of your loss and would like to extend our heartfelt sympathy. I have chatted with their grandma while waiting for preschool to dismiss and she often had funny and wonderful tales of the twins adventures. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
We are so very sorry to hear of our loss. Cody was in preschool with Makenah. I can’t begin to imagine the pain you feel, just know that your are in our thoughts and prayers. Dustin,Kacy,Makenah,and Landen Collinsworth
We are very sorry for your loss. We had just seen your family at the restaraunt that day and thought how beautiful the kids were. You are in are thoughts and prayers. Anne and Corey Richards
We are truly sorry for the loss of your baby boy.