Isarah Marianne Callais Handler Decker
October 31, 1981 ~ February 4, 2023
Isarah Marianne Callais Handler was born October 31, 1981 in Lafayette, LA and passed away suddenly on Saturday February 4, 2023 in Wichita, KS at the age of 41.
She was the daughter of Martha Christina Moss Handler and James Melvin Dorr. She had been briefly married to Brad Decker and we knew her as Isa Decker.
Isa had a big personality. She was bubbly, outgoing, and laughed easily and often. She loved her three children, Monica McMullen 18, Lily 16, and Kaynan 9. Though she wasn’t raising her children they were never far from her mind and she wanted to be a part of their lives.
She wrote a long letter to her children posted on Facebook on July 30, 2022. In part she wrote, “To my children, I’m sorry for the unhealed parts of me that in turn hurt you. It was never a lack of love for you, only a lack of love for myself. Sincerely, Your Forever Birthmother”
God have mercy on Isa and give us the grace to be good parents to her children.
Isa is survived by brothers, Michael Stephen, Washington, D.C., Austin Adams and Houston Adams of TX; aunt and uncle, Meredith and Steven Klein of TN; boyfriend, Dale Brazil.
A private funeral is planned.
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Dearest Isa…I will always remember yourwarm,loving spirit…your abundant energy and your infectious laugh.I love you very much and I know you knew this.I’ll forever remember the times we spent together at my house,with our boys playing together…much love sis,I will deeply miss you…Fly Free My Friend
You were my best friend, my sister, and I loved u so much. Now who am I gonna spend my bday with? I still can’t believe ur actually gone I love u so much love Drew ur sister forever
IsA I’m Not Gonna Live This Down . . . I Don’t kno What U Or I Was Thinking The Night U LefT us Here Without Your Profound Awesomeness. . . . Everyone Has Spit The Venom From An Arsenal Of Animosity Towards Me I Feel these Feelings Aren’t At all Ill Placed I am Just as Upset But To Fallow u Into The Great Beyond would Only Further The Cowardly Flesh Fed Selfishness I’ve Lived Buy And The Whole Tyme u only wished Me Something More But As My room And Areas We Chose to reside In lay in RuiN . . . From the RuBle I Only Pray 4 U & Patrick Grossman’s Blessing 2 Further Become something More than The BrokeN Fool that was My existence. . . Yet I’m Not Letting either U or ur offspring DoWn . . . If Only we Chose different Would’ve we had a Journey Filled with More On this Table of Feasts That is Life The poisons Weren’t Your interests Yet I was in The Carnival Of Wicked Oppressed Buy Disbelief In The True Love U Showed Me . . . Ima Try But I’ll Never Live Up to u Love
Sorry for your loss Kliff. 😞
Isa was awesome to know. God bless her, she was a good friend, she created many beautiful things in this world and left it in a better place.
I bet she is sitting next to Jesus talking about Earth amd all her amazing adventures, thank you for the great friendship and memories!
My Dearest Isa
It’s been almost a year since you left us, I still cry when I get to thinking of you, in a sense it’s more than I can handle still. You were more of a daughter to us then our friend and aide. I know in my heart of hearts you did not intend or want to leave us. You were the sunshine to a lot of people, I regret that we didn’t get to do the things we had planned. You were so happy, finally had a job doing something you loved to do, a man that treated you like the Princess you deserved to be treated like. You were rebuilding the relationships with your children. And a few other things. You were headstrong and would make sure your opinion was heard, I think Casey hit it right on the head. I love and miss you so much, may you forever rest in peace and have the all your questions answered.
Mama Von
Her anniversary of lose of life is coming and I’m not okay. Doing everything I can but I miss her so much 😭
If you knew isa you knew how kinda hearted she was and s.how she always the life of the party.
I miss her all the time. Angry everyday that she sgone.
Isa I love sweet woman and every memory we shared runs through me all the time daily even. 😭😭💔