Jill Diane Hershey

jill hershey

January 29, 1964 ~ January 21, 2021

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Jill Diane Hershey, 56, died January 21, 2021 just 1 week before her 57th birthday. She was born January 29, 1964 at St. Francis Hospital in Wichita, Kansas to parents Joseph W. “Jay” Hershey and Donna Male Hershey. Following surgery at 7 days old and release from the hospital a week later, she joined her family. Jill was diagnosed at 3 months with Down syndrome. This was in the “dark ages” of intellectual and developmental disabilities before testing for this condition was available. Jill began her schooling at the age of 3 at Lilac Lane Preschool, being transported across town every day by her mother or grandparents. At age 7, she entered public school at Park Elementary, followed by Bridgeport Elementary, Arkansas Avenue Elementary, Earhart Elementary, and Hadley Junior High; graduating from East High School in 1985 with a Special Education diploma. Jill attended Sunday school and church at First Mennonite Brethren with her family until about the age of 15, then attended the Religious Nurture Center at First United Methodist Church for many years. It was there that she learned to read proficiently and was asked to read scripture several times for their morning church services. Jill was baptized by Pastor Roland Reimer on August 30, 1981 upon her confession of faith by playing the piano and simply saying, “I love Jesus very much.” Jill started taking piano lessons at the age of 16 and became quite proficient. She had the opportunity to play all over Kansas as a member of the Pride Performers of The Arc of Sedgwick County. She also performed at many area schools as part of “Awareness Through the Arts,” played for several wedding receptions, banquets, Special Education graduations, and for several years at the Kansas State Fair. Jill worked hard at performing, practicing at least 30 minutes per day, 6 days a week. Very rarely did she have to be reminded to practice. She was able to memorize her music, resulting in a repertoire of about 30 pieces. In 2007, she gave a 1-hour recital at First Mennonite Brethren Church, playing non-stop, followed by a reception. Jill also flew by herself several times to visit her sister in Fresno, California and later in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada. Following high school graduation, Jill worked at Starkey and KETCH. She enjoyed “dressing up” and riding the city bus downtown by herself to her job at a bank. Other activities she enjoyed were softball and track with Special Olympics; bowling, dancing, skating, and traveling with The Arc, especially to Branson twice a year. Jill loved life, was very outgoing, friendly and had many “best friends”. Jill was predeceased in 2017 by her father, Jay Hershey. Jill is survived by her mother, Donna Hershey, and brother and sister-in-law, Jerry and Tracey Hershey all of Wichita; sister Julie Hershey of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada; nieces Alyssa Hershey of Kansas City, Kansas and Natasha Bergen of Saskatoon; aunt Maxine Male of Wichita; honorary sister and nephew, Mieka and Jesse Dueckman of Saskatoon; and many cousins. Memorial service at 2PM on Wednesday, February 3, at First Mennonite Brethren Church and live streamed at www.firstmbchurch.org/funeral. Memorials have been established with The Arc of Sedgwick County, 2919 W. 2nd Street, Wichita, KS 67203 and First Mennonite Brethren Church, 8000 W. 21st Street N., Wichita, KS 67205. Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary.

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  1. We are so grateful for the many occasions we were able to spend with Jill. She was always so happy and full of life. She played the piano beautifully. And when we would happen to see her at the mall, she seemed excited to see us and greeted us eagerly. We are grateful for the opportunity to have known her. She certainly touched us with the gift of God’s love. We express our heart felt sympathy to the family. Lovingly, Gary and Connie

  2. I remember Jill from Girl Scouts and Pioneer Girls in elementary school. Her sweet, loving spirit was always so evident.

  3. I will miss that beautiful smile. She loved to bowl at our Special Olympics. She will be missed. Kim Mudd Wichita Independents Special Olympics

  4. I remember little Jill from family gatherings and water skiing at various KS lakes with my dear friend, Jeanae. She had a wonderful, loving and supportive family. Thoughts and prayers for them.

  5. My condolences to the Hershey family. As you all I wasn’t ready to let her go but it was a pleasure and honor to care for her she is forever in my heart. And I know she is up there dancing with her daddy. I will cherish all memories I endured with especially our concert to Alan Jackson. Rest easy Jilly Bean ❤️❤️ Frank and Leslie Diaz

  6. Donna, Julie & family, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in the memories and peace in your hearts. I have too many memories of Jill. She was so full of life, love and always wearing a smile. One of my favorite times was 6 or 7 years ago I was shopping at Dillon’s and so was her group. Our eyes made contact & she knew I was one of Julie’s friends from school. We gave each other a hug which I am sure was a no no. Her leader asked her to get back in with her group. I told the leader it was fine & Jill chimed in “she is my friend, she is my sisters friend”. I thought yes I am your friend Jill and I always will be. My heart is broken for you all. Hugs from afar. Natalie “Esterline” Pool

  7. Donna – I was so sorry to hear of Jill’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Rhonda Brack – Avita Senior Living

  8. I always enjoyed my brief visits with Jill. She always had on a smile and was so happy every time we visited. She accomplished so much in her life with the wonderful support of her family. We will cherish our fond memories of Jill. Kevin, Sue & Natalie Clark

  9. Jay, Tracy, Alyssa and the Hershey family – So sorry for your loss. Jill lived an amazing life full of accomplishments. I always enjoyed seeing her at Alyssa’s MTYP & NWHS performances and see the joy in her face to be out with her family. Such a sweet soul. Lydia Pierce


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