Patricia Anne Warren Cary, daughter of the late Ronald Homer Warren and Ellen Morlan Warren, was born on September 1, 1931, in the family farm house in Republic Country, Kansas. On the farm, she participated in 4-H, helped take care of the chickens and eggs, and learned to sew and knit. She attended public schools in Jewell, Brown, and Doniphan Counties. She played the piano and in the school band, she played the trombone. She graduated Suma Cum Laude from the High School in Troy, Kansas. With her family, she attended the Troy Methodist Church and came to a saving faith in Jesus Christ and dedicated her life to serving Him.
She attended Kansas State University and studied Home Economics for one year where she met the love of her life, Harold Russell Cary. On campus, the were known as the Swedish couple because they both had very blond hair. They were married on June 2, 1951. She went with him as he accepted various job assignments with Eby Construction Company in Topeka, Belleville, and Wichita, Kansas, and also to Cheyenne, Wyoming. They were blessed with five children.
While living in Wichita, Patricia also faithfully attended and served at Trinity UMC, Woodland UMC, and Ridgepoint Church where she was baptized at 82 years old! Patricia served her family by keeping a beautiful home and raising her children well. She was known for her delicious cooking, keeping up with sizeable vegetable and flower gardens, and sewing, knitting, and other craft projects. She loved the outdoors and encouraged her kids in activities including archery, canoeing, tent-camping vacations, horseback riding, hiking, and making homemade ice cream.
Patricia passed away on Wednesday, September 10, 2025 in southwest Wichita, Kansas. She was preceded in death by her husband, Harold; her brother, Fred Warren; her sister, Elizabeth Atkinson; and her grandson, Bryce Farrell.
Her life will forever be remembered and cherished by her five children, Steven (Cheryl) Cary, Rebecca (Tony) Eubanks, David Cary, Martha (Randy) Kessler, and Ruth (Dennis) Farrell. She is also survived by a devoted brother, Sam (Karen) Warren; and a loving host of nine grandchildren; 24 great-grandchildren; siblings, nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Celebration of Life will be at 10:30 am, Saturday, September 20, 2025, at Ridgepoint Church. The service will be be livestreamed through the church’s website, or by clicking “Watch” below. Graveside Service will follow at 4:30 pm at Sunset Cemetery, Manhattan, KS.
Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary.
Mrs. Cary was my Girl Scout leader in the late 60’s and early 70’s. I remember her as a very kind and gracious woman. Her home was always warm and inviting.
I have so many fond memories of the experiences she made possible for me. Thank you, Mrs. Cary.
Also, thank you to her family for sharing your mom.
With sympathy,
G. Johnson
Awh thanks for sharing it means the world to us to hear those sweet memories shared by others❤️
Patricia was a beloved neighbor, when I was raising my children in west Wichita. We were both horse owners and she often (and graciously) accepted my bunch into her drier pasture during soggy weather. She grew delicious strawberries and had the most delightful, twinkling eyes and laugh. Her loving demeanor was a comforting reminder of my godmother, who had passed on back then. I was honored to know her during a chapter of my life. Blessings to her family.
I remember those days! thank you for sharing❤️ we loved visiting them on Eberly Court!
Thank you Shawn for sharing❤️as well as your love and care of our precious mom❤️
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Martha is a friend and classmate of mine. I have very fond memories of going to your house for lunch during the school day for our Girl Scout Leaders meeting. We also had our meetings at your house and your parents were both so gracious! Your mom was a role model for us girls and I am thankful for her pouring into us! Hugs and prayers for all of you as you walk through this chapter of life! Debbie Ellsworth Marmor, Phoenix, AZ