Patricia Mabie
October 2, 1950 ~ August 3, 2021
Patricia Mabie, 70, Loving mother, wife, sister and friend died 8-3-2021.
Public viewing will be from 4pm to 8pm Monday August 9, 2021, at Downing Lahey Mortuary, 6555 E. Central, Wichita, KS. Family will not be present because of Covid - but they wanted to ensure Pat’s friends and extended family could pay their respects.
Pat was very funny and an inspiration to all. She filled a room with her presence. Pat had a great personality. With her quick wit and amazing sense of humor, she always had a way to brighten up your day and had a special knack at making everything seem okay. “Hey kid…” she would say. She was a caring nurse for 40 years, always making her patients feel safe and comfortable. Her greatest love was her little family of 3. She met her husband, Sid in her hometown of Parsons, KS. It seemed the two were destined to be together. They were born just 5 days apart and were in the same nursery together in Parsons, KS. But it wouldn’t be until they were 15 years old that they would meet again, this time not wearing diapers and looking at a mobile over their bassinet, but instead wearing boat hats making momma and papa burgers at the A&W restaurant in town. Pat was with her best friend for 55 years and married to him just 11 days shy of 50 years. They were inseparable. Pat moved to Wichita with Sid in ‘73 where she worked as an RN at Via Christi for 38 years and raised her only daughter, Molly. She always wanted to be a mother. She was so excited when she found out she was pregnant that she sent a singing telegram to Sid to announce the news to him and everyone at his work. She was such a loving mother, always putting Molly’s needs over her own. Molly was born with a disability and Pat was her biggest cheerleader, never discouraging her from trying anything, despite being a bit nervous about some of the activities Molly chose to do…skiing was one. She saw Molly through every medical challenge and “bump in the road” as she would put it…and there were some pretty big bumps. Molly was her proudest accomplishment. Pat was always looking at the bright side of things, never dwelling on the bad, and making us laugh through it all. She was so selfless and would do anything for anyone. She was loved by so many and will be deeply missed by everyone who knew her. We've lost a lovely lady that was very compassionate, friendly and a great friend to everyone. She will be missed. May she rest in peace.
Preceded in death by her parents, William and Mary Catherine Boner; brothers, Robert Boner, Michael Boner. Survived by her husband, Sidney Mabie of Park City, KS; daughter, Molly Mabie of Durango, CO; sisters, Maryann Whitlock of Gilbert, AZ, Susan (Tom) Pavey of Minneapolis, MN; 10 nieces and nephews and 7 grand nieces and nephews. A memorial has been established with the Adaptive Golf Program, 696 Goldeneye Dr, Durango, CO 81303.
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When Pat came to work with us, it was as if she had known us all her life. We shared so many good times together. Vacations, wine classes, dinners, holidays, much laughter, and a few tears. This world was a much better place with her in it. I will miss you “ole buddy”. My love and prayers go to Sid and Molly. You two were the light of her life.
Pat never ever put herself first. She never met a stranger and her wit was unmatchable. She was comfortable in her own skin and made everyone else comfortable in theirs. She will always be present in our memories and stories about her will live on in us forever. Sid & Molly have our deepest sympathy and we pray that your memories will see you through this sad and difficult time. Tom & Vicki
Molly and Mr. Mabie, so sorry for the loss of this lovely woman. Only met Pat once or twice, but her drive and love for you both was undeniable.
Pat was always there for me through everything my family has gone through. She helped me through dark times and helped pull me through. She was an amazing neighbor and my family will miss her terribly! We love you Pat!
From the first you walked into our unit, it was as if we had known you for a lifetime. So many good memories it is hard to list just a few. Shared vacations, wine classes, talks on our deck, shared holidays, much laughter, plus a few tears. You always saw the bright side in everything. This was a much better world with you in it. You will be missed my old friend. See ya later “ ole buddy”.
Pat definitely will be missed. She always had something nice & encouraging to say. She was quite a trooper!! My heart goes out for Sid & Molly!! We are here for you.
Pat and Syd are our neighbors on Scottsvile. I say are, because we will always believe she’s still there . Loved her wit.and humor . Better neighbor you will never find!!! We love you all and will greatly miss!! The Officers
I have so many fantastic memories of my years of friendship with Pat. Laughter was a part of every encounter with her. I’ll miss her calling to say “Hey kid, when can we go to lunch?” The last time was last Friday and I will always be grateful for that last meal together. She was not only a wonderful friend but an amazing mother and a dedicated wife. She was so proud of Molly and always said she didn’t know how she got so lucky to have Sid for a husband. She loved you both and talked so lovingly about you. I know you will miss her and it’s hard to imagine life without her. I thank God that she came into my life over 40 years ago. Rest in peace, Kid!! Love you!! Mary Costello
Sid, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your loving wife. She surely was a wonderful lady. Our prayers are with you and Molly for comfort during this hard time. Lloyd and Earlene Endicott
Pat made me smile any time I was around her. Her story telling was wonderful, “kid”. I know her family and close friends will miss her. Rest in peace, Pat.
Molly and Sid, I am so saddened to hear this! Pat was the most loving — and funniest — person! She brightened my day whenever I was around her. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Embrace the wonderful memories she left you — we were all blessed to know her! ❤ –Patty Cooke
One of my favorite sayings she had during hard times was “Are we having fun yet?” I still use that to help bring levity and I think of my Aunt Pat every time I say it. She will be truly missed 😢
Sid and Molly, I am so very sorry. She will be so missed. She was always so fun to be with. I always looked forward to seeing her when I made a trip to Kansas. My love and prayers are with you.
Molly, I remember spending the night with Sid, Pat and you at your house. BOTH Sid and Pat were so enjoyable and listening you all of you gab and laugh is still a highlight of my life! We laughed and laughed. We were up until the wee hours in the morning. Your mom had a meal for us at supper and breakfast ready when we woke up. As I went to leave your house I tripped and fell in your mom and dad’s yard. While you and I laughed SO HARD, your mom and dad did not know what to do with us laughing all the time! I loved seeing Sid’s cameras. It was lovely Molly and they loved you so much my dear. Love, Donna
I met Pat after the merger of the two Catholic hospitals in 1995 when it was decided to combine the two maternity services at the St. Joseph campus. Over a period of just over a year, there were many meetings between staffs to coordinate practices and she often used humor and good will to diffuse any possibility of dissent between those in attendance. The result of those many meetings resulted in a larger and stronger group of nurses and physicians providing excellent maternity services to women in the area. Well done, Pat. Peace to your family. Marge Wortz
What a special lady… Shocked and saddened by this… Debbie Keagy Bird
Pat was my “little sis” in nurses’ traing. Her sister maryann and I were very close at that time and I loved every minute of our time together. I would run into Pat once in a while, and Maryann moved to Phoenix, but I will always have loving memories of the times together. Barbara Hearne Griffith
Sid and Molly, I am so so sorry to hear of your loss of Pat. I was so shocked and still can’t believe it. We had so many good times together, especially at St. Jude. I will never forget going with the 8th grade class to Worlds of Fun. We had a great time! I can still hear her saying “hey kid”! She was always so much fun and one of the sweetest ladies to know! The last time I saw her was at a funeral and we got to visit quite a bit. We talked about getting together for lunch sometime. We never followed through with that and now I’m so very sad that we didn’t. The obituary was on-point and, Molly, the tribute to your mom was just absolutely beautiful! I know how very very much you both will miss Pat! Even though I didn’t get to see her as much as I ‘d like to have, she will be a big void in my life too! My heart goes out to you! Please know that I love you both and that you will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Pat was one of the funniest people I know. We were in Nursing school together and there was never a full moment. She was a loving and caring person and and will be deeply missed. My condolences to Sid and Molly Shirley Richard Cook
Pat was a friend & leader during the many years I worked with her at Via Christi in Wichita. She was always happy, kind & dedicated. We have been so fortunate to be able to often host & enjoy she & Sid when they were here in Durango visiting their daughter. We will miss seeing her & her wonderful spirit will always be here with me. Jim Burpee MD retired
Pat was such a special sister in law. While we were distant physically, I always felt like we remained close in many ways. She was enjoyable to be around or just to discuss with on the phone. It was quite amazing how she was able to keep everyone around her laughing and in good spirits no matter the situation. As a mother to Molly and a wife to my brother Sid, she was superb. I often told her what a wonderful job she was doing, and did, raising Molly. She replied, “Hey kid, I hope I taught her that the most important thing was how to laugh at life”. In my opinion there was no one better to teach that lesson. In Molly you see the results. I think every moment spent with Pat was a special gift from God.
Sid and Molly, I can’t tell you how sad Matt and I are for your loss. We will always remember the great times we had at Jimmy’s egg and going to the KU games. Even the one where she tripped and it didn’t matter how bad it hurt, she wasn’t going to be the reason Matt missed the game. She was there for me when I lost my son and will always hold a special place in my heart for her. We will miss that sweet-sweet lady so much. You’re in our thoughts during this very difficult time, but I hope knowing how much she touched so many people brings you some comfort.
Sid & Molly, We were so sorry to hear about your loss. I have a lot of fond memories of working with both of you at the A&W. It has been a long time since we have had contact , but I have thought of you often.
Sid & Molly I am so so sorry…. hugs & love to you both. Bill Rodgers St. Jude