Paul Allan Skaff, beloved son, brother, uncle, friend, and musician, left behind the struggles of this world on October 29, 2025. Paul was born March 5, 1956, the fourth of six children of Alfred and Pauline Skaff in Wichita. He attended Kapaun-Mt. Carmel High School and earned his bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University. Inspired by the talents of his brother Gregory, Paul took up acoustic guitar from an early age and spent many hours teaching guitar technique to local students. His musical interests drew him to the Walnut Valley Bluegrass Festival which he attended yearly, enjoying the community of friends and other musicians. In his professional life, Paul worked in maintenance for apartment properties then honed his creative skills doing custom framing, finally settling into a career as a collections specialist for small businesses.
Paul was predeceased by his parents, Alfred and Pauline; and brother Vincent.
Surviving are sisters, Barbara Carson, Melissa Cohlmia (Steve), Carol Skaff Streckfus (Chris), all of Wichita; and brother, Gregory Skaff of New York City. Paul is also survived by many beloved nieces and nephews.
A private family service is planned.
Memorial contributions may be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society of Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church, 124 N. Roosevelt, Wichita, KS 67208.
Services in care of Downing & Lahey East Mortuary.
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Charities
The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Paul Allan Skaff 's name.
St. Vincent de Paul Society at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church
124 N. Roosevelt
Wichita,
KS
67208







Paul taught our son, Travis, when he got his first guitar. Paul’s lessons spurred a lifelong love of music. We will always remember Paul fondly for his enduring friendship.
Thank you, Teresa, Paul loved his lesson days with Travis.
Haworth
My deepest condolences to you, Missy, and your family. Having lost two brothers I can feel the sorrow you’re experiencing. May your memories help during this difficult time. Sincerely, Sheryl Maninger Stanley
My sincere condolences to Barbara, Greg, Missy and Carol, and to all whose lives were touched in a very joyful way by Paul. May God’s grace and strength be with you during this time and forever!
Thank you, Jon. You were a wonderful friend to Paul.
Thank you, Jan. My sisters and I remember you fondly, and mom loved you. You were there for the good days.
Jayne Walterscheid-Durãn
Thank you, Jayne. Paul loved you and all the Walterscheids. He considered you family.
I remember Paul would always entertain my son when he was little! We had some great talks about life, and he was always joking with me. I know this time is hard, but I hope you can take some comfort in some of the good memories of Paul. I will miss him.
Many blessings to all your family!
Debbie Walterscheid
Thank you, Debbie. Paul was fond of you and all the Walterscheids.
My deepest sympathy to Barbara, Greg, Melissa/Steve, and Carol. Paul was a lifelong friend of mine and all I can do is remember all the great times I had with Paul and all the Skaff family. I’ll remember Paul in the best ways.
Thank you, Pat. You were a wonderful friend to Paul and to the Skaff family.