Paul Scott Marcotte
May 11, 1962 ~ May 17, 2021
Paul Scott Marcotte, 59, passed away at his home on Sunday, May 17, 2021. A Holy Rosary will be said for Paul on Monday, May 24, 2021, at 9:30 AM, at Church of the Magdalen Catholic Church, 12626 E. 21st St. N., Wichita, Kansas, 67206. Funeral Mass will follow at 10:00 AM. The funeral service will be live streamed and available to view by clicking “Watch Event” below. Paul's body will be cremated according to his wishes and his remains will be interred at Ascension Cemetery in Bel Aire, Kansas.
Paul was born May 11, 1962, at Castle Air Force Base in Atwater, California, to the late Conrad Paul Marcotte and Sharon Lynn (Hronek) Marcotte. Paul earned a B.A. at Wichita State University in business administration after graduating in 1980 from Kapaun Mt. Carmel Catholic High School (KMC). He lived his entire life in Wichita and contributed actively to the lives of his family. Paul was a gentle and loving son, friend, uncle, and brother.
Paul was passionate about drawing and took inspiration from his favorite movies and the great outdoors. He loved fishing especially and would always take family members fishing. The family genealogist, Paul enjoyed sharing his knowledge about the Marcotte family French and German heritage and was his Mother's devoted caregiver. The Marcotte Family is closer because of Paul's efforts.
"He was an auxiliary parent for all his brothers, '' said brother Mark Marcotte in a moment of Tribute.
"He would come over and teach my kids cabinetry with old fence post cedar flats. He took the time to teach my kids how to make furniture. One of those chairs is still sitting on the porch." Mark said.
Paul is survived by his mother, Sharon L. Marcotte of Wichita; brothers, Mark T. Marcotte (Tena Harper) of Wichita, Brian T. Marcotte (Carol Stuart) of Mandeville, Louisiana, and Bret and Stacey Steffes-Marcotte and their children: Sabina, Isabel, Maddox and Anistyn Marcotte. Paul is survived by nephews and nieces, Cooper E. Marcotte of Louisiana, Emily L. Marcotte (Dylan Lloyd) of Nebraska, Erin and Brady of Dallas Fort Worth, Texas, and Megan Marcotte of Denver, Colorado.
Paul is survived by numerous cousins and relatives, all of whom loved him dearly.
Paul was preceded in death by his father, Conrad Marcotte; and two stillborn brothers, Joseph Anthony and Edward Allen Marcotte.
To remember and celebrate Paul's spirit, the Marcotte family encourages you to take loved one’s fishing or contemplate the poem by Dalmar Pepper, "Gone Fishing":
I've finished life's chores assigned to me,
So put me on a boat headed out to sea.
Please send along my fishing pole
For I've been invited to the fishin' hole.
Where every day is a day to fish,
To fill your heart with every wish.
Don't worry, or feel sad for me,
I'm fishin' with the Master of the sea.
We will miss each other for awhile,
But you will come and bring your smile.
That won't be long you will see,
Till we're together you and me.
To all of those that think of me,
Be happy as I go out to sea.
If others wonder why I'm missin'
Just tell 'em I've gone fishin'
Memorials in Paul's name may be sent to Kansas Department of Wildlife, Parks and Tourism (KDWPT) WildTrust c/o The Kansas Department of Wildlife, Parks and Tourism, 512 SE 25th Ave., Pratt, KS 67124-8174.
Flowers and cards can be sent to: Downing & Lahey East Mortuary, 6555 E. Central, Wichita, KS 67206.
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It was always a joy to be around Paul. No matter how many years there were between visits, I immediately felt like we’d just visited a few days before. He was comfortable to be with. May he Rest In Peace.
I am saddened to learn of Paul’s passing, shared with me by a mutual friend. Paul, myself, and so many others were fortunate to be part of an amazing SHS Team in the early 90’s – I got to know Paul then. Those were some great years, that seem like only yesterday! We lost track of one another after SHS. I wish Paul and I had reconnected and reminisced – I pray for peace and comfort for Paul’s family. I’m proud to have known Paul, if only for a short while. Michael Hinton
I worked briefly with Paul at the Sedgwick County Appraisers Office before I retired. He was a great man to work with, always good to be around. Not chumy but enjoyable. I know his family will miss this nice guy. May the good Lord surround you with his love as you lay your son, your brother to eternal rest!
Paul was a good neighbor and will be missed. We remember fondly when he and Mark lived together and Mark’s children visited. Paul was a delighted uncle. He was always willing to help his neighbors, and was a go-to guy. So sorry for your loss.
Paul and I met in a grocery store check out lane. We got to chatting about what I was going to make out of so many cranberries. He said he knew his mother would like that recipe. He gave me his address and I mailed it to him. From that a good friendship developed. Later he brought his mother to my house and we all three had a good visit – though I’m ten years older than Sharon. It didn’t matter. They came by several times to ask me to go with them to the art museum. When I was unable to go they brought by a brochure and left in the door. So many kind, generous acts like coming by to share a newly purchased watermelon, a flower or flowers. The most comfortable person to know ever. Thank you, Sharon, for raising such a kind, caring son. — Praying for comfort and peace for you, Sharon, Family and all who loved Paul.
Paul and I met in a grocery store check out lane. We got to chatting about what I was going to make out of so many cranberries. He said he knew his mother would like that recipe. He gave me his address and I mailed it to him. From that a good friendship developed. Later he brought his mother to my house and we all three had a good visit – though I’m ten years older than Sharon. It didn’t matter. They came by several times to ask me to go with them to the art museum. When I was unable to go they brought by a brochure and left in the door. So many kind, generous acts like coming by to share a newly purchased watermelon, a flower or flowers. The most comfortable person to know ever. Thank you, Sharon, for raising such a kind, caring son. — Praying for comfort and peace for you, Sharon, Family and all who loved Paul. – Margaret Clark
Paul would come to the Linwood Senior Center to travel with us on trips, when he could. We always had a fun time. I think the last trip he went on was to the memorial in Kansas City. He was so good to his momma, Sharon. And to her caregiver as well. We will miss his smile and kindness. Praying for your family, Cherise Langenberg, Director of the Linwood Senior Center.
Nothing was more important to Paul than his family. While he adored his mom, his nieces held a special place in his heart. I remember how tickled he was when one of the girls took sewing lessons from her grandmother. Paul also loved spending time with his brothers. Fishing, sharing a meal, or just talking…he cherished it all. Lorri Moreno-Geisinger