Rhonda Jean Ashley-Helm
October 31, 1957 ~ December 26, 2022
Rhonda Jean Ashley-Helm, age 65, ascended into God’s graces while being surrounded by family on December 26, 2022.
A warrior throughout life. There was never an obstacle she couldn’t overcome. It would be wrong to say Rhonda lost her battle because she never quit fighting. She bravely finished her fight on Earth and peacefully entered eternal rest.
With a true passion for helping others, she was able to impact countless lives. Specifically, serving as a drug and alcohol administrator for over 20 years. We know her spirit will continue on in those lucky enough to have known her and experienced her light.
With an unconditional love for her family, her faith, and Kansas City Chiefs football. Her legacy will live on forever. Rhonda will be fondly remembered and sorely missed.
“They whispered to her, you’re not strong enough to withstand the storm,
She whispered back, I am the storm.”
- Author Unknown
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9
Rosary will be at 6:00 pm, Monday, January 2, 2023; Funeral Mass will be at 1:00 pm, Tuesday, January 3, 2023, both at Holy Savior Catholic Church.
Preceded in death by her grandchildren, Carmelo Brentlee Casanova, Sonny Casanova, Xavier Casanova; parents, Tom Ashley and Vivian Sites; sister, Debra Kay Ashley.Survived by her husband, Brent Helm; daughter, Elena Casanova; sons, Joseph Helm, Skylaar Helm, Collin Helm; grandchildren, Daphne Casanova, Beckham Casanova, Mila Casanova, Bryan Beltran, Leonel Beltran, Madeleine Helm; stepfather, Marvin Sites; brothers, Walter Adam Wheeler, Dennis (Joyce) Ashley, Randy (Cheryl) Ashley, W.D. (Angela) Wheeler.A memorial has been established with: Holy Savior Catholic Church, 3000 E. 13th St N., Wichita, KS 67214.Services in care of Downing and Lahey Mortuary - East Chapel.
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One of our real pleasures was getting to know Ronda over the years! On many occasions she would sit with us as we ate at their restaurant; we will sincerely miss her unique sense of humor and insights.
Steve and Leanna Scott, the teachers
Brent, Elena, Joey, Skylaar, Collin.
My sincerest condolences to each of you at this time. You have my deepest sympathy and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.
LaDonna Enochs
Wichita Kansas
Kate and I are so very sorry for your loss and are sending our deepest condolences and sympathy. We will never forget the hugs and smiles Rhonda would dish out to us every time she walked up the stairs at Arrowhead. A truly wonderful woman filled with kindness that we are honored to have had in our lives. She will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
Brian and Kate Pursley
We are so sorry for your loss. Hugs to the Helm family.
Kathy and Chuck Luney
Helm and Ashley family, our hearts are breaking along with yours. May memories of Rhonda bring you peace and a smile. Love you all! Cousins Billie and Eddie Jaso
Sam and me will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Tanya and Sam Foxx
My condolence to the Helm family for their loss. My prayers are with each and every one of you. Just remember 1 day at a time. We are on this journey together.
Williemae White
Our condolences to you and your family.
The Bateson family.