Robert John Miller, IV

Rob, Susie, and family,
I remember John as a fierce competitor, a great teammate, and a better friend. I have not spoke with John in many years, but he was brought up on numerous occasions. He always brought a smile to my face, but nothing made me smile more than seeing him with the biggest heart warming and caring smile he always wore. I am so saddened for your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in this most difficult time.

Respectfully,
Patrick Duling and Family

It’s with a heavy heart that I share the passing of my cousin, John Miller. As the Miller family prepares to lay John to rest, I ask for your prayers—not only for peace in this moment, but for healing in the days and years ahead. The loss of someone so full of life and light leaves a quiet ache that words can’t easily reach.

John was a uniquely gifted person—strong, kind, and incredibly talented. Growing up near the Millers, I had the chance to babysit, to witness his early years, and to see him grow into a young man, a husband, and a father. In a large family like ours, life pulls us in different directions. John and I weren’t especially close in recent years—we were both raising our own families, living our own stories—but what never changed was his warmth whenever we crossed paths. At those big family gatherings, John was always welcoming, always ready with a smile, a story, or a laugh. That kind of openness is something you never forget.

Like so many, John faced challenges that weren’t always visible to the outside world. We all carry burdens and battles that we don’t always speak about—some heavier than others. As families grow and spread out, we may not always know the full story, but we can still offer understanding, compassion, and love.

Please keep the Miller family in your thoughts and prayers. May they find strength and comfort in the love that surrounds them. John’s light touched so many, and though he’s gone, the warmth of that light and memories of John’s huge smile and kindness to many remains.

I played against John in high school as Carroll and Heights were rivals. John was fierce competitor that battled on the mound. We played college ball together his sophomore year at Dodge City. I found out behind that competitor was a down to earth, nice guy. I’m so sorry to the Miller family and my heart goes out to you all during this difficult time.

I was class of ‘04 with John. We played football together and lifted weights and we saw eac other in the halls of BC all of the time. He was one of the nicest guys with a big bright smile that could light up a room. He was always full of energy. He was a fierce competitor, but also a jokester. In football He stood behind me in the huddle and with somewhat frequency loved to “goof off” between plays but it was always in good taste and fun. It made me laugh. After Carroll I saw him around Christmas time at Goebel as I didn’t know anything about beer but I always wanted to get my father a nice 6 pack for Christmas and John always knew what to select. We would catch up and check on each others family. He still had that smile that went from ear to ear.

I’m so sorry for his family and close friends. He was a great man and he will be sorely missed.

Matt Veith
“Veith”- class of ‘04

We were heartbroken to hear about the loss of John. No words that can truly ease the pain of such a profound loss. Our love and prayers are with you.

Thinking of you all. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort are with you all.