Stephen Stanley Barcus
Stephen Stanley Barcus
January 1, 1950 ~ April 13, 2020
Stephen Stanley Barcus, 96, chemical sales supervisor, passed away Monday, April 13, 2020. Private Family Graveside Service. Stephen was a veteran of World War II. He served with the Flying Tigers in China as part of the Army Air Corps and over the years, has continued to attend reunions with his fellow veterans. Stephen was preceded in death by his parents, George and Elizabeth Barcus; first wife, Thelma Barcus, and grandchild, Melissa McDoniel. Survivors: wife, Katherine Barcus; daughters, Kay (Mack) McDoniel and Dee K. (Max) McCarty; step-daughters, Karen (Bob) Wiederstein and Debbie Schremmer; sons, James Barcus and Richard (Kathy) Barcus; step-son, Brock Witzke; grandchildren, Wendy (Brad) Bowles, Brian (Alejandra) McCarty, Brent (Delores) McCarty, Joshua (Julie) Barcus and Michelle (Matt) Burton; step-grandchildren, Andrea Huddleston, Travis and Ashley Wiederstein; 13 great-grandchildren. A memorial has been established with Union Rescue Mission, 2800 N. Hillside, Wichita, KS 67219. Downing & Lahey Mortuary West.
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August 5, 1923 ~ April 13, 2020
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Richard, Jim, Dee and Kay, so sorry about the loss of your father. He was a good, decent honorable man. I will remember him for his military service and dedication and love for Thelma.
Deepest sympathy and condolences to the Barcus Family. Steve was quite a fella who lived life to the fullest. I just remember his love for Thelma and his family. He had a zest for life like no other and a great laugh, he will missed by all who had the pleasure to know him. May his spirit live on in his beautiful family. Prayers of comfort and peace in this time of sorrow.
Ecclesiastes 3:12 “I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live” This truly describes my father-in-law. I so appreciated the way that he and Thelma welcomed to me into the Barcus family so many years ago. the love and devotion between Steve and Thelma set the example for future generations of the Barcus family.
Jim, Richard, and family, so sorry about the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God Bless you with peace and comfort at this time knowing he is in a better place.
It is so difficult to describe how my heart breaks at the loss of my hero, protector and friend. I already miss you more than words can express. You have been a guiding light and example of Father God in heaven. If there is any good in me as a husband, father, person, it is largely because of your example. So glad you no longer suffer this body’s weaknesses, but are risen in Christ. I CORINTHIANS 2:9 Your son, Richard
Taking care of my dad these last few months was such an honor and gift. So many times we were able to sit with him and reminisce about our family and his life before he married our mother, Thelma. He had so many funny and interesting stories to tell. I am so glad we had this time together. We will all miss him so much but we are so glad he is in heaven now with mom. Miss you forever dad.
Katherine; You are loved by all of us and we will be praying for your comfort in the times ahead, I know you and Steve were very happy together and enjoyed each other even when he won at dominos. Tracie wants you to know her love is with you now and always. We will miss Steve, he was such a great guy and good for and to you and your family. To Steve’s family: Thank you for sharing Steve with Katherine and all of us we really enjoyed the time’s we had with him and he was absolutely great for Katherine which in turn made us all very happy. Love from all of us.
Grandma, I’m so sorry for the loss of your husband. I wish so much that I could be by your side to help you through this time. If circumstances were different, I would be there in a heartbeat. I know Steve made you very happy, I remember seeing a pep in your step, and a special twinkle in your eye the day you two were married. I’ve never seen you smile the way you did that day. I remember seeing how special he made you feel even at the sound of his name. I wish you all the peace and love during this hard time. I love you very much and I cannot wait to hug you again. I love you, Your granddaughter, Ashley.
Steve came into our family when he married Katherine 7 years ago. It was the second marriage for both. Watching the two of them together, it was easy to see how much in love they were. We were blessed to have known Steve. I was constantly amazed by his sharpness of mind and quick wit. The stories of his military service were amazing and riveting. He was truly an American Hero. We miss you Steve, but will see you soon.
To Steve – You alone were the answer to a prayer. It was evident from day one how deeply you cared for my grandmother. That deep care quickly became love and adoration. The way you’d look at her when she wasn’t watching. It was like a love sick puppy. You may not have ever caught her doing the same thing, but I saw it. My grandma loved you to the ends of the earth. You were newlyweds your whole marriage. You once told my grandma that “Thelma would’ve approved.” I hope you’re celebrating with Jesus and her right now. We will think of you in fondness for many many years to come. We are missing a very important piece of our family. We are comforted and at peace because we know your eternal address. I love you so very much Steve.
Dear Richard, Kathy and family, please accept my deepest condolences. He was a special man who loved his family very much. Cherish the many memories you all have together and remember that the legacy that he and Thelma built lives on through each one of you. May God Bless you all!
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