Thomas Allen Friedman
February 16, 1959 ~ January 25, 2021
Thomas Allen Friedman died on Monday, January 25, 2021 in Wichita, Kansas at the age of 61. Graveside Services will be held at 1:00 pm, Thursday, January 28, 2021, at Congregation Emanu-El Cemetery (within Highland Cemetery). Tom was born in Wichita on February 16, 1959, the eldest son of Sterling “Bob” and Charlotte Friedman. Tom attended Southeast High School in Wichita then graduated from the University of Wisconsin in Madison with undergraduate and Master’s degrees in Business Administration. From college, Tom began his career with the Lincoln Mercury Division of Ford Motor Company in Chicago, followed by other jobs over the years in various locations. Tom was an avid sports fan, enjoyed playing golf, talking politics, cooking, and was involved in several Jewish organizations. Tom was known for his wit, fashion sense and kindness, and for several years cared for his mother, Charlotte, until she passed away in 2020. Tom is survived by his son, Ben, and former wife, Renana; along with his sister, Carol, and brothers, David and Rich. He will be missed by his sisters-in-law, Marlene and Nancy; nieces, Lauren, Allie, Arielle, Lindsey and Rachel; and nephew, Sam. Tom was predeceased by his parents, Bob and Charlotte; and his nephew, Joshua Moore. The family wishes to thank the ICU staff at Wesley Medical Center for their caring and kindness over the past month. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Mid-Kansas Jewish Federation and Congregation Emanu-El in Wichita. Services in care of Downing & Lahey East Mortuary.
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Tom was a good friend and fraternity brother in Madison Wisconsin in the 70’s. I will always remember his kind spirit and dry wit. My sincere condolences to his family. – Bob Radebaugh
To all of Tom’s family. I was sad to hear this news. While we lost touch over the years, I have so many fond memories of Tom and our growing up years. My heart is with you all. Sue Cohen Butler
Tom was a very kind, caring person ! I remember when Ben visited Wichita to be with Tom , how delighted Tom was! And Charlotte, I remember was pleased when Tom chose to be with Her in Wichita after Bob died! The Friedman family were all a loving family who contributed much to Congregation Emanuel over the decades! It has been so sad for us all,one by one a loving, sweet Friedman family member died here! We will always remember blessings having a very long beautiful relationship with the generations of your Special Family! Doris Weller and Family
Tom was one of the kindest men I have ever met. His concern for others was always first and foremost. Such a loss for all of us who appreciated his friendship. He was my fraternity “brother,” and will be in our hearts always
Tom was a good friend and fraternity brother. We spent a lot of fun times together at UW-Madison, talking politics and watching sports. I always enjoyed his trumpet playing and his appreciation of a good joke. I am so glad to have spent time with him – all too short – and will miss him. All my condolences to Ben and the rest of his family.