Amy Lou Stephenson
June 10, 1944 ~ July 2, 2009
Stephenson, Amy Lou, 65, passed away, Thursday, July 2, 2009, under the care of Harry Hynes Hospice at St. Francis Hospital. Public viewing will begin 1:00 P.M., Tuesday, July 7, with the family present 5:00-7:00 P.M., Downing Lahey Mortuary East. Funeral services 10:00 A.M., Wednesday, July 8, East Heights United Methodist Church, 4407 E. Douglas, Wichita, followed by graveside service, 2:30 P.M., Bazaar Cemetery, Bazaar, KS. A reception will follow the services at East Heights United Methodist Church and at the Bazaar School House Building. Amy Lou was born June 10, 1944 and the daughter of Frank and Mina Gaddie of Bazaar, KS. Amy Lou graduated from Chase County Community High School, Cottonwood Falls, KS in 1962 and Kansas State University in 1966. She worked as a social worker for Sedgwick County during her early years following graduation from K-State, then, later worked at The Wichita Childrens Home coordinating volunteer care. Amy Lou was known for her active leadership roles as a community volunteer and was a member of Leadership Wichita. Amy Lou is preceded in death by her parents, Frank and Mina Gaddie, brother, F. M. Gaddie and step-mother, Virginia Ballweg Gaddie. Survivors include her husband of 44 years, Paul D. Stephenson; daughters, Darcy (David) Beaver of Wichita and Kitchel (Steve) Scheufler of Wellington, KS; grandchildren, Abby, Josie and Mollie Beaver, Lauren, Lindsey, Lucas and Lexie Scheufler; sister, Sylvia (Bill) Brethour of Maple Hill, KS; sister-in-law, Hattie Rosa (Vern) Starkey of Cottonwood Falls, KS; step-brother, Ernest Ballweg of Stilwell, KS; step-sister, Nancy Hodges of Scottsdale, AZ; nieces, Greer and Drew Gaddie, Leigh (Joe) Burke and Deanna (Tom) Sollner all of K.C., KS and Paula (Marc) Boese of Burrton, KS; nephews, Clay (Kristin) Brethour, Thane (Jodie) Brethour and Ward (Jeanette) Brethour all of K.C., KS. Memorials have been established with Junior League Endowment, 6402 E. 12TH, Wichita, 67206 and the KSU Marching Band, c/o KSU Foundation, 2323 Anderson Ave., S-500, Manhattan, KS, 66502-2911.
Public viewing will begin 1:00 P.M., Tuesday, July 7, with the family present 5:00-7:00 P.M., Downing Lahey Mortuary East.
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Paul and Family- I was indeed sadden hearing about the passing of Amy Lou.Paul,from the time we spent together at the Sig Ep house, on campus at KSU, to athletic events it was always joyful to see and greet you and Amy Lou. She will certainly be missed by many loving friends.
Paul Dean, I was saddened to hear of Amy Lou’s passing. She was a sweet and considerate person. I know you will miss her terribly and always will. Take one day at a time and don’t hesitate to ask for help. I’ve gone through this myself. I will keep you and the rest of your family in my prayers. God always walks along side you leaving his foot prints and when you don’t see two sets of foot prints anymore that is when he is carrying you in your time of need. God’s Love and Prayers, Pat (Barrett) Applegate
Just thinking of you, Darcy. I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Darcy, David and girls, You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sending our love & prayers to you all during this very difficult time. Love, Gwen, Scott, Cal, Claire & Lola Hartley
Kitchel and Darcy-I am very saddened to hear of the death of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with your families. Eric and Coni Adams and children
Kitchel and family, Remembering you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time with the passing of your mother. May God give you strength and bless your family. Rosanna Herrmann
Darcy and David I am sad to hear that your mom has passed. I know this time is difficult, please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are thinking of you and the girls. I hope to see you when you come to KC. Lisa & Court
Dear Paul and Family, We were so sorry to hear about Amy Lou – such a tragedy to have the life of someone so vibrant, caring and involved cut short. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughters and their families.
Dear Paul, Darcy, and Kitchel, I was so sad to learn of Amy Lou’s passing. I can only imagine what a difficult time this must be for all of you. My association with her was through the Wichita Junior League and Crestview Country Club. As a volunteer, I had the pleasure of serving on many boards with her. true woman She was a woman who was direct, honest, up front, fun, funny, warm and so very empathetic. She was a true woman of substance. She was a wonderful woman, who no doubt left a strong legacy in her daughters. Her spirit will continue to live on through you and through all that knew her. She was also a friend, whom I had the pleasure of golfing with. She had a competitive side that was a pleasure to play with. Hold fast to your many wonderful memories of her. Those memories are a permanent part of you and will always be there for you to enjoy. Know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Jinx Moore
Paul, family and Amy’s friends. I was notified by Brad of Amy Lou’s passing. She was always a favorite of mine every since you and I roomed together at KSU. Call me when you are going to be in Breckenridge and I’ll look for you and your friends if I get back to Manhattan for a game. Eli
I am saddened to hear of Amy’s passing. She was a good friend when I needed one during my college days at K-State. She will be missed by all who enjoyed her easy smile and laughter. Take care.
Darcy and Family of Amy Lou Stephenson- I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Mothers are special people, and I know you have many wonderful memories of your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you.
Amy Lou really fought this horrible thing. She was a real trooper. Paul Dean, you were right by her side supporting her 100%. I loved her humor and laughter. Her smile just radiated the room. She was a very fun person. She will be missed. Hugs to all of you during this most difficult time. May God be with all of you as you get through this time and beyond.
Paul, we send our sincere sympathies in your loss of Amy Lou. We know your many friends in Wichita will be of great comfort to you.