Alex Christensen

February 1, 2006
Christensen, Alex, 13, Horace Mann dual language Middle School student, died Wednesday, February 01, 2006. The rosary will be at 7:00 P.M., Friday, February 3 at Downing Lahey Mortuary East. The service will be at 1:00 P.M., Saturday, February 4 at Church of the Magdalen. Survivors: mother, Lydia Christensen of Wichita; father, Jay Christensen of Newton, KS; grandparents, Jim and Judy Christensen of Marion, KS and Marcelo and Margarita Vitolas of Liberal, KS; numerous aunts, uncles and cousins and many friends. A memorial has been established with Bishop Carroll Catholic High School, 8101 W. Central, Wichita, KS, 67212.
The rosary will be at 7:00 P.M., Friday, February 3 at Downing Lahey Mortuary East.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
Iwanted to thank you miss lydia for beint at our concert the other day. Alex was in the room making sure we did well. We are happy you came and spend some time with us. Alex always talked about you and how youmade him do things. He thought you were crazy but always wanted to make you happy. he was crazy and made us laugh with his sounds and his jokes. I know he is making some one laugh in heaven.
for ever loved by your hommies and your school gracias for your laughs and your support you will always be remmembered and you still are because you are a shinning start
Alex May you and Leonard be togehter now. You made us laugh and made us think. We had fun and we laughed togehter. you are my best feiend and will never forget what how you always wanted to make good grades to make your mom happy and get out of trowble. you were the only kid in school who was grounded for 48 days. Miss lydai loves you and she made sure you did not ghet in trowble. I love you and your mom because you were happy. your mom is cool and i feel for her. Lydia please do not be sad. Alex loved you and always talked about you. he will now take care of you and all of us. I love you Alex and I hope you know how much because we all miss you here on earth but know you are looking out for us. Please look after your Mom. I never knew a kid who had a picture of his mom in his wallet and his pet hamster. We will miss and will always keep you in our minds. Gracias GUERO for showing us how to laugh and to love eacho other even if we did not belong. Jasmine
Alex was one of my lil homies here at Horace Mann he always made me laugh with these joke that he used to tell me and of the way he used to do those weird noises.Now I know that he’s in a better place and that hes watching us and guiding us.Alex my lil home boy you are always going to be in my heart and mind know matter what.
Wow!… When my cousin (Alma Flores) told me about this kid, it made me really sad, and shocked!… i didnt know a kid so young could ever have a disease like this!… Alma talked to me about him before he died, and i sympathized him because my aunt Mari died by a Tumor in the brain too!… So it made me think, ‘How can a kid! have this happen to him!?? He’s only 13!!!’… But then i thought, ‘I shouldn’t be questioning God’s decisions, God know’s why he does these kinds of things, even though we dont agree’. I looked back at the days when i was at Horace Mann, and i actually remember him walking up and down the hallways. He always seemed to have a smile on his face!… and it depressed me to know that he’s not with us anymore! But to all of our relief, he might not be here physically but he will be with us spiritually, and emotianlly! To all of Alex’s friends and Family… im really sorry that one of your loved one’s has passed away… I wish you the VERY best!… Love Always…
I will always remember Alex because he was a good friend, and we did a lot of fun stuff together. We used to do hop-ups with our homie hoppers. We had a hard time selling tickets for people to watch us, and we tried to not get caught so they wouldn’t take our cars away. We did a lot of drawings together, especially in the 5th grade. We wanted to make a magazine of all of our drawing and sell them. He would rap about the school and things he didn’t like about it like detentions and stuff. Alex was the best at telling ‘mama’ jokes. When we did presentations in 5th grade, he made a sign that said ‘please stand by’ while we were getting ready to film it. He always said ‘nah, man, nah’ when you asked him something. He said Chinese food was stupid because it gave him a rash on his face in 5th grade. I will always remember him because he was a good friend.
I’ve waited a while to write this because it’s been so hard to put my feelings into actual words. Alex was my student for three years, from 5th grade until 7th grade. In that time, I watched him grow from a goofy kid into a goofier pre-teen. I try to think of all of the good things about Alex instead of the immense sadness that his death has brought to all of us. The thing that I think about the most is the way his eyes would light up and his cheeks would stick out when he smiled and laughed. He always brightened the room. Even though he struggled in school, he never gave up. He always tried his hardest, and he was the first one to help others when they needed help. Alex was very likable. I can’t think of anyone that he met that didn’t consider him a friend. He was a part of our family at Horace Mann, and he will be in our hearts forever. My thoughts and prayers go to Lydia, Jay, and the rest of Alex’s family. It eased my mind at the hospital when I reminisced with Alex’s grandparents about Leonard and the things that Alex liked to do. Lydia–You are always in my thoughts. I know what it is like to be a single mom of an only child. I can’t even begin to imagine your pain. Just remember that Alex lives on in the hearts and minds of everyone that he knew. You may have lost a child, but you still have a family here at Horace Mann to support and love you.
ALEX you are in my hart. I just cry but I think good memorys about you when me nd you usto call are selves goofball. By your best budy.
Everybody loved Alex, he could make anyone laugh. He was one of the nicest guys I know, he always said hi. Alex was great on NAL, our team wouldn’t have made it so far without him. He will be loved and missed by a lot of people.
Alex was a very funny boy. He was always making or saying jokes and making everyone laugh. I will always miss him and everyone else also. Now he is in a better place and is an angel that is going to be with us no matter what. We should remember him as a funny ,joyful and wonderful student…..or better yet, a FRIEND!
I spent the better part of this week thinking about Alex; trying to decide why he meant so much to meso much to us all. I listened to all the things that all the kids had to say, and the stories that his family told about him, I remembered when Lydia bought the brick with Leonards name on it and how we sat in the sauna at the Y talking about having a Margarita at the end of fifth grade (it was a tough year). And of course, nothing came to me and everything came to me. The truth of the matter was that Alex was just right. He wasnt one of those annoying brown nosing kids who never did anything wrong, and he wasnt one of those kids who couldnt stay out of trouble either. Alex was a class clown that knew when to stop; Alex was a friend who knew when to stand by his friends and when to back off. He also belonged to ushe was ours. Horace Mann is a small school and as lame as it sounds, we really are a family. Alex was more than just a student to ushe was part of our family. He was also a teacher to each and every one of us. He taught us to laughto laugh at him, ourselves, and each other. He taught us not to take things too seriously, that some things were more important than tests and having clean hands. He taught us that you didn’t have to be the smartest or the most atheletic to be the best because Alex was certainly the best. I know that none of this will bring any comfort to any of usAlex is gone, but he also lives on. He lives on in practical jokes and the kindness that weve shown to each other this past week. Luis Adame said it better than I could ever hope to; Alex Christensen was and always will be the joy in joyful.
Jay and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss and always.
Alex: I just want to say a few things to you. I have known you your entire life, yet I never had much opportunity to really get to know you. Yet, even though you are so young, you should know how much you mean to your mom, uncles, aunts, and of course abuelitos. You are a gift to your family and will always be remembered. I wish I had more of chance to spend time with you, but I know through faith that you will always be with those who’ve loved you. Be always with your mother in spirit. I’m sure that you are the most important thing in her life. Go with God.
I am a substitute teacher at Horace Mann since my daughter teaches there so I had Alex in many classes. He was always funny, yet worked when told to get busy. Alex always had a smile! I’m glad I got to know him. You are in my prayers and thoughts as you go through the greatest loss a parent has to endure.
Dear Lydia and Jay Christensen, I know its hard, but look at it this way his in a better place.He would have wanted you guys to be happy.I have known Alex for a couple of years know and he was a wonderful kid he always made us laugh, he made school more fun by making weird noises. Alex will ALWAYS be missed,and loved by all of us at Horace Mann.
Dear Mr and ms Christensen I am so sorry about what has happend to Alex, I carred for him like I he was one of my family members,He was and he will allways be one of my best friends.Alex will never be forgoten yo friend Andres Zapata
Dear Alex’s Family We are sorry about what happen to Alex. We feel really bad and sorry. We hoped that never happen to him. He was really nice and funny. He was like a brother I Ernesto Moran never hade. We hope you never forget this message.We will never forget his jokes and laughter we had together Youre Friend, Ernesto, Jaime
dear, lydia and jay i want to tell you he was like a brother to us he made us laugh all the time and he always made farting noises with his hands he never cared if he was white he always made jokes about him self bieng white like he puts his hand on a paper and says ‘whered i go’ we just wana say that we feel bad right now and we will remeber the good times we had his friends from horace mann. 7th grade arturo and hernan
dear, lydia and jay i want to tell you he was like a brother to us he made us laugh all the time and he always made farting noises with his hands he never cared if he was white he always made jokes about him self bieng white like he puts his hand on a paper and says ‘whered i go’ we just wana say that we feel bad right now and we will remeber the good times we had his friends from horace mann
Dear, Lydia & Jay, where very sorry for what happened to your son Alexander.we cared about alex like are own brother.Alex was a very cool guy and every time we got introuble he always told me to never do dume stuff and know that he has left us I will change for him.Alex was a very smart kid he almost never got introuble like us. From:Your homies Carlos Lozano,Julio Hernandez
Dear, alex’s faily We are very sorry for what happend to alex.He was a very good friend allways making people laugh and smile.Where all going to miss him and we will never forget him.We will allways keep him in our minds .We will allways think about him no matter what happens we will allways be happy and doing our best for him .We will always try our best to complete something and we will never give up. We are very sorry for what happend and we know how that feels because some of us have already lost somebody who we love and care about so its ok to cry.
Dear Alex’s family, I feel very bad about what happened specially to you Lydia and Jay.I know how both of you feel. He was mostly the nicest friend in 7th grade. I am very proud of him because he always tried hard and made us laugh. But I am also happy of him because he lived for 13 years but I never thought he would have that tumer in his brain and a heart condition. I just want to tell you the last thing he said to me, this was on Monday 01/30/06 it was when I bummed in to him and i said sorry then he said it’s OK it was my falt.
Dear Alex’s Famaly, I really feel sad about Alex because he was really funny and nice to everybody.For me I think that there is no person in our school that does not like him.He is really going to missed a lot and he is going to be remembered for ever in our hearts as a nice ,cool,funny guy.
To Lydia and Family, I want you to know that Fred and I are thinking of you and you’re in our prayers. I was at the hospital Wed after school, just missed you and the family. As I was talking with the nurse I saw Alex. He seemed so relaxed, at peace, and beautiful. Jay called us to inform us Tuesday after talking to Victor, he was so upset. He didn’t know what to do. I told him I would do what I could and keep him posted. We’ll put you on our church prayer list to have God stay close to you. Love, Mary & Fred Mueller
i feel so sorry
Jay and Family, Sandra and I will keep you in our prayers during this difficult time in the loss of Alex. Stay strong and keep the faith that you will see him again in heaven. May God comfort you and your family. Your Friend Russell Kinzie
I will remember alex because or his rapping and his funny jokes. He would always be making up some jokes to make us laught. He was a great rapper.Alex would always be in my memory
I will remember alex because he was my freind and he made us leugh alot. Alex always made funny noises like, farts. When I did a noise like an elephant he tried to do it, but he coudn’t. The favorite thing that he loved to draw, and that’s my favorite thing, too. One day he was drawing with me, and he made a fart noise with his hand, and I thought that he really took a fart, then we started to laugh. Alex you will neber be forgotten, you will always be in our hearts and minds. I’m sorry that you died, but for you I’m going to continue with my life. We will miss you, Alex.
Alex was a good kid.He was always making the class laugh.He was good at playing basketball.Alex will always be missed.
Hey Alex I feel kinda good for you couse I know you are at a better place insted of hear.I will see you in another world when I pase away,I would love it if you guided me.But before that happens you will always be in our hearts and minds like you use to say,guero in the house.You will always be with me no matter what.
I will remebmer Alex because he was a kind person i like went he makes nosie. And iwill remember Alex because he is a smart kid
I feel so sorry about what happend to Alex Everyone misses Alex so much. Just think about all the good stuff that Alex did and all the funny stuff.
Dear Alex’s family, I can understand the way your feeling. Specially since Alex was so young. I hope you like all the messages
I will remember Alex because I would see him in recces every time I was there.I didn’t know Alex very well,but I heard that he was fun and nice.It was sad when we heard that he had past away on Wensday night.It was hard for everyone to realiz what had happen to him.
Jay, You and your family are in our prayers. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.
to alex’s family We will always miss alex o matter what happends he will always be in our hearts.
i will remember Alex from the jokes he use to tell us.I hope you are happy in heaven.I will miss you.You were always a brother for me and to evrybody and Jonathan.
Dear,Mrs Lydia & Mr. Jay I will alway remember alex because he would always cheer people up. He would always like to rap,the songe’s he mostly liked were (Mike Jones). we will steel remember all the day that he would make diffrent type of noies and everybody would start laughing!! Every time anybody would turn around and see alex he would always be smiling, there was no time that we would see him sad. We will always miss you but there would be one day we will see you up there two. We all steel remember the when you would like to play basketball.
I will remember Alex because he was a good frind.And he made funny sounds.Like the one with his hands.But all of his family will meet him agian even all of his frinds will meet him too.And teachers will too.I`m happy for because thier will be no more pain for him in his heart and his heart will be better were ever he is at .And his name will never be forgoten.some day I will meet you agian,Alex.
I will remember Alex because i had great memories of him.He would play soccer and do jockes with his hand .He had many diffrent friends to share with and he was a great,kind kid and i would tell peaple that i had pictures since 1stgrade am so sorry about the lost.He will be in our horace mann family forever he would watch us play while he sits and rest i wanted to say the last word !goodbye!.He was brave since he was in academecly,and of course funny.i wish i was there to tell him goodbye forever.two things he knows, his are family and we care about him more than enybody am sorry again.
I will remebar Alex because he could fart with his hands. He was smart and he played the trumpet. He was cool because his name was Alex and so is mine. I can remeber his cool stuff like his flat screen t.v he always brough it to the ymca and we watched Mike Jones on it.
Dear Alex’s family, I’m really sorry for what happen.I even remember the day he was smiling at his friends.He made us all laugh alot.It’s so sad.Everybody cried.Poor Alex.He used to always make weired noises.He even liked basketball.I even remember I had to help him with science in spanish last year.I feel really sorry.It really hurts.I would be seeing the family today at the rosary and at the funeral tomorrow.I would be singing in the choir.I’ll write another day.
I will remember Alex because he make fart sounds with his hands.I will remember Alex when he like Mike Jones and how he sung.I remember how he was in the acedemic league.
When it seems that life is over ond you lose someone so precious like Alex it help to konw he’s ok!.Even though he’s so far from us I bet right know he’s watching over us
hey alex’s parents well me and Alex weren’t as close frieds, but still he was a really funny and outgoing friend. what i remember about him is that he liked playing he’s trumpet and liked playing basketball! but look at the bright side he is in a better place that us were he can see us and protect us!! He will always be a angel here at Horace Mann love always brenda
Dear Mr./Mrs. Christensen, Even do I really didn’t know Alex that well I will still miss him. I knew him by his jokes, by all of the funny things that he would sai.I know what it feels like to have lost some one that you care so much about.I lost 3 family members in just one year, I still can’t get over it. Bui that doesen’t keep me or my family from going on with our lifes. So if I a 13 year old girl mcan keep on going with life than so can you, that you have the sopport of all of Alex’s friends and the sopport of your family.
I will always remember Alex becuse he always had a smile on his face he also liked to play basket ball,like people say he’s in a better place now watching over us.
Lydia & Jay , This is a hard time for you, it is very hard to lose a loved one specially is it was really close to you or sombody like a son. It is dificult but just rememer EVERYONE hehe at Horace Mann is their for you in this hard time.
I’ll always remember Alex becouse he used to make me laugh alot. I also remember that he will make farts with his hands. Alex will be remember here at Horace Mann becouse he will always be part of our family.
alex was a very nice person even though i never got to know him better all i know is that he was very respectful 2 us gurls never disrespected us in any ways and that is wat i appreciated bout him.Im sorry.
I will remember alex because he make fart sound with his hand.I remember alex when he like Mike Jones and how he sung.I will remember alex how he was in the acedemic league.We all miss you alex and you are still in our heart.
Jay and Kathy and family, Words aren’t adequate. I just want you all know that Tara and I are praying for you. Jay, I thank you for sharing with me things about Alex. You always had pride in your voice and in your eyes when you told me things he was doing, or that you two were going to be doing together. I know you are the type of father that thinks he never did enough. Well, when you love someone the way I know you love Alex, that is to be expected. That said, you are a good man and father. I know Alex was at the top of your priority list. I know that because I remember that when you got the order to mobilize, he and your family were your major concerns, and not your own safety. You set a good example for him. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I am proud to call you my friend. It is my prayer that God will bless you with a sense of pride in knowing that you were able to be a dad for awhile, and that he will bless you even more as you grieve for Alex. There is a verse in Romans that 1SG Ed Poley gave me back in Jan of 2001, the year I lost my son, Jacob. The verse is a prayer from the apostle Paul to the Romans and it says: May the God of Hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him so that you may overflow with hope by the power of his holy spirit. It was Ed’s prayer for me then and it is mine for you now. God bless you and keep you. Your friend, Dave
Dear alex’s family,Well i never knew alex, but at lunch when he was with his friends i would always hear them laughing & i would look at him and he was either doing something or said something FUNNY.i found out that when you know a person but don’t really talk to that person its still very sad to find out they just passed away… I still remember the day we found out he passed away we were at first hour the principal & other teachers came into the room and told us that he was at the hospital… For the rest of the hour it was very quiet but when we were in passing period it was even more sad, every one was crying(especially his best friends Juan and Jonathan)this week was a very quiet week… especially thursday when he passed away it was VERY SAD.he would always have a smile everywhere.. and now at lunch i dont really see his friends laughing anymore,now i know even when you dont know this person you would still cry. but i still remember every one laughing with him.well i just want his parents to know alex will be in my heart and everyone else heart…he is now in heaven watching over us so we should smile because he would want us to be happy not sad.
I will remember Alex because he was a kind. Person he loved to make noises with his hands and mauth.
Alex was pretty much the funny dude in the school. I don’t know how a good guy like Alex suddenly get this disease, he should,ve had a second chance. Nobody likes to see people we know die. Why did it have to be Alex? At least He has shown us a very important lesson, life can be shotrt, that’s why we should live it to the fullest.
Alex was a one of a kind friend he would be the quite one but when he talked he made some really funny jokes. Alex would always play sports especially basket ball, me and him played a couple of times he was really good at it . So to the parents of Alex just remember that he chenged the life of many people. Alex will never be forgotten.
Alex was pretty much the funny dude int the school. I don’t know how a good guy like Alex suddenly get this disease, he should,ve had a second chance. Nobody likes to see people we know die. Why did it have to be Alex? At least He has shown us a very important lesson, life can be shotrt, that’s why we should live it to the fullest.
Mr. and Mrs. Christensen your son was a good kid he was my brothers friend I did not knew him olot but I do know that anybody that is my brothers friend is my friend also.
Alex was always smiling and making people laugh. We will never forget him.
Alex was one of the best trumpet players in the band .Alexwould always make us laugh in band. alex will always be with us.
When he died it was sad for some they were glad because he brought us closer than ever. I would never have thought that a person you love can go down like that. People who i never thought would hug me did and people i never thought id hug i did. Man i lov ed alex so much even though the first time we talked we didnt like eachother. I remember the day he went to my dads house ha!ha!! it was fun. At first he didnt want to play with me then i asked him if he wanted to make smores he said alright like a man. my dad took me to go get the stuff. It turns out we only wanted one smore. After that we played soccer. When we were finished playing soccer his mom and my dads girlfriend talked to us about why we didnt like each other Alex said because i mess with his friend so i was like alright i said because i thought he didn t like me.he said no so thats how we became friends i realize yesterday that cryin dont bring him alive so no more cryin.
Dear Mr. and Mrs.Chistensen, Alex was a awsome student,band player,basketball player and a good. Alex like to be called guero.But now we got an angel a horace mann but your always going to be with us every where.But now your in a better place and your not dead your just giong to be wachin over us.We going to miss you always and for ever dont think where giong to forget about you lil homie / Guero.We love you lil homie.
Alex may not have beeen my best of friennds but he lives on in our harts for eternaty. I share your feeling of grief.
Mr. and Mrs. Christensen, your son was a good kid he was my brothers friend I did not knew him olot but I do know that anybody that is my brothers friend is my friend also.I got some last words to say where ever you go we will always remember you in our harts. An you will go in peace.
Dear to all of Alex’s family, I did not really know Alex but I seem to know how you feel cause the same way every one in alex’s family feels is the way your sons friends at school feel.Even though right know he’s in a better place with love and the treasures of gods kingdom. Each and one of us have a angle watching over us especially his parents.
wat up lil homie i hope its good up in heaven. nobody should say that ur dead cuz ur not ur in a better place,a holy place.we will all miss u down here on this world but we will all see you later.my prayers are with alex rest in peace.
Alex was a very nice and not to mention funny kid! Even though I did not know him very well, he is part of our Horace Mann family and every body loves him. He might not be here physically but he is here spiritually. His seat is kept because he is with us every day learning with us.
Alex was a funny, kind person. He was in NAL, and it’s hard not watching him do his presentation. We will always miss him, but we know that he is watching over us.
Alex, we will always remember you, and it will be like you never left.I had passed great times with you and you were always there when I needed you.Thanks.Our angel will always be here telling his jokes and making us feel beter when we feel bad.Thanks my faithful friend,thanks.
I will alway`s remember Alex because everytime he came into a teacher’s room he always had a smile on his face. Alex will always be with us.
Hello Alex parents i’m so sorry about what just happened we are as sad as you guys are we all loved alex and he will always be in our hearts nobody will ever replace him.
Jay, Kathy, Lydia and family, We can’t begin to express our sympathy for your loss. Alex was such a neat boy who loved to shoot hoops out in the drive with his dad and challenge us all at a game of pool, and how he liked to play with Abbie (our dog)as we stopped by to say hello on our walks around the neighborhood. May God be with you all during this time and give you strength always. You are in our hearts and prayers.
My sincere sympathy on your loss. Alex was a fun and wonderful boy. I will always remember him for showing me the light of rap music. (Mike Jones is in the house!) My heart and prayers are with you. I am praying that God will give your family the strength and comfort in the coming days.
Even though Alex has left us we will always remember him. He was a great kid.
Alex was a joy to have as a student. He was responsible and easy going. He was a great kid.
I will remember Alex because he was a good and smart kid.When I always see him he always has a nice smile on his face.He always said funny stuff in YMCA.Alex will always be in my heart no matter were he is,because we are in the same sky.
I will remember Alex, because he was a verry good friend. He always helped peoplethat neded his help.He never said bad stuff to other people. Also, he was really funny he use to pop his fingure’salot. He was a verry good friend with Jonathon O. So Alex you will always be in our heart’s.
I will remember Alex because he was a kid that would always make up joke’s and with a smiel in his face.Alex was a kid that would like to cheer up people by makeing them laugh.
Dear Alex Family, I want you to know that Alex was a really wonderful joy to every one here at Hrorace Mann it wouldnt matter if we were having a day he would always mannage to but a smile on everyones face. Me and Alex we didnt talk very much but a smile every now and then made a big diffrence. We all know that he is now in a better place. . . LOVE ALWAYS WENDY CENICEROS*
Alex was a great kid, he always made people laugh. He was also good at shooting hoops. When I played my first game against him it was pretty competitive maybe one of the most competitve game I played. Alex you will never be forgotten.
Jay, Lydia, Jim, Judy and family – I cannot begin to express my love and sympathies for you during this time. Though I’ve not seen Alex since he was a bright-eyed, little guy of about 4, I will never forget his beautiful smile and infectious laughter. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you. May God strengthen you and give you His blessed peace. With Love and Prayers, Fawn Keith-Lopez, Atlanta, Georgia
Alex was a very good guy and made everybody laugh.He was an essential on the NAL(national acedemic league)team and we all have very fond memories of him. He was always cheering people up and we will miss him very much.
mom and dad of alex will never be forgaten and insted of feeling sad just think about his acomplishments always and for ever alex.
Jay… Wanted to say that I love you and I am thinking of you…Sorry I can’t be there to hug you but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I will remember Alex because he was as mart kid. I remember abaut Alex he was funny. Alex was part of our family.
Alex will allways miss you but we still remember like your still with us.