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Doug S. Hermann

December 2, 1960 ~ August 13, 2026

Born in: Wichita, Kansas
Resided in: Wichita, Kansas

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Doug S. Hermann, born December 2, 1960, ascended to heaven on August 13, 2026.

Doug was born in Wichita, Kansas to Leo and Rose Hermann. He married his wife, Sally, in 1993. Together they traveled to many places enjoying the different cultures, history and sandy beaches. Doug retired from Dillons/Empire as a meat buyer.

Doug was so very proud of his two sons, Matthew and Derek. He was a great provider in many aspects that have helped them succeed in many ways.

Doug loved fishing with his parents, uncle and aunt at Roaring River. He introduced his guy friends to fishing at Roaring River and loved the memories they all made. Doug was a youth director at Immanuel for 10 years and supported many organizations that he was passionate about. He was a true giver to others.

Doug is survived by his wife, Sally; sons, Matthew (Mercedes) Rufle, Derek Rufle; grandchildren, Caius, Abigail, Orion and Chloe.

Visitation will be 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Thursday, August 20, 2026, at Downing & Lahey West Mortuary. Funeral Service will be 1:00 pm, Friday, August 21, 2026, at Ascension Lutheran Church, with burial to follow at Resurrection Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established with Ascension Lutheran Church, 842 North Tyler Road, Wichita, Kansas 67212.

Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary

Services

Visitation: Thursday, August 20, 2026 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Downing & Lahey West Mortuary
10515 W. Maple
Wichita, KS 67209


Funeral Service: Friday, August 21, 2026 1:00 pm

Ascension Lutheran Church
842 N. Tyler Rd.
Wichita, KS 67212


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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Doug S. Hermann 's name.

Ascension Lutheran Church

842 North Tyler Road

Wichita,

KS

67212

www.ascension-lcms.org

Memories Timeline

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  1. We all met Doug at a restaurant a distant 14 years ago and were friends with him from that moment on. We loved hearing stories about his travels with Sally and about all the unique and rare items that he collected. It was funny though because we all had motorcycles and Doug said, ‘I’ve never been on a motorcycle and I’ll never get on a stupid motorcycle” in true no-holds-barred Doug fashion that we appreciated and loved!

    We will miss him at our breakfasts and especially will miss his quick-witted sarcasm which made us laugh, even when it was directed at us. We had so much fun at those breakfasts with him!

    Friends like Doug are rare to find. Even though we will miss him dearly, we will always continue to carry him in our hearts.

    His friends,

    Ralph Lagergren
    Bob Ward
    Jeff Mescher

  2. We loved having dinner with Doug at Biggs he was full of life and great stories. I will always be thankful of having him as a friend. We enjoyed many trips together… with the Youth groups.
    Through the years Doug invited me on several trips together Las Vegas he really helped a friend in need. I will miss you buddy.

  3. I worked with Doug for many years. He was respected for his knowledge and work ethic and was a very good man.. Deepest sympathy to Sally and his family. Rest in peace my friend.

  4. Doug’s parents, Uncle Leo and Aunt Rosie, were always close with my parents, George and Myrtle. I left Wichita when Doug was only four but my parents watched him mature. They had many fishing trips together to Roaring River. I enjoyed some with them, he became the brother I never had.

    It was part of Doug’s nature to be loyal and dedicated. He cared for his parents as they aged, assisting them both before and after a full workday of his own. On Memorial Day weekend he would travel to Alta Vista to decorate tne graves of my parents, his grandparents and many other family members. Fortunately, many times I was able to accompany him and it created a lasting bond.

    I will always remember his joy of living and his unique laughter.

    Theron for Shelley, Anne, Jason and Dana Hermann

  5. I met Doug shortly after I started Dillon’s back in 1983. He eventually became Meat Manager and I was his second man. Over the next 40 years we would travel twice a year usually in the spring and fall to either Las Vegas or fishing at Roaring River. Doug and I had so many drinks together went to concerts,shows and watched the Chiefs at Caesar’s Palace. Throughout that time I would often see Doug purchasing things or giving away money to people in need. You had to be very careful around Doug if he knew that someone needed or wanted something he would make note of it and buy it for them. He was so generous to everyone he knew. I would often ask him why don’t you spend your money on yourself? He would say “Son it makes me happy to give to others,” and I watched him do this over and over again and he would light up like it was Christmas and be so happy when his friends and family would cherish what he had given. Even if other people felt like Doug was being taken advantage of he didn’t care because he was spreading Love. And that was the kind of man that I knew and loved. I miss him every day I always will. All I can think is God needed more love in heaven and that’s why he took Doug so early. Love and Miss you, Sean

  6. I feel so fortunate to have known Doug. I first met him through my brother in law Sean when I rented from him years ago. Doug was my landlord, but quickly became a friend, and over the years there were plenty of good conversations, laughs, and beers shared with Sean and friends. He was always incredibly kind, generous, and willing to help however he could.

    He was such a hard worker, but what I’ll remember most was his giving heart, his sense of humor, and the way he treated people. He had a heart of gold and I’m grateful our paths crossed. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Sally & family and everyone who loved him.

  7. Doug was such a great guy. He was likeable, opinionated, funny, kind, hard-working, and he had a very positive influence in the stores and the Hutch office where he worked. He will be greatly missed. Sally, I’m so sorry for your loss, may the Lord wrap his arms of love and comfort around you and your family.

  8. Doug was not only a family friend and my landlord, but someone who was always incredibly kind, welcoming, and thoughtful. He had a way of making people feel comfortable and cared for, and I’m grateful to have known him. He would always have good advice he offered to me, with an opening “young lady” to start the conversation.

    It is heartbreaking that his life was cut short so young. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and everyone who loved him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.

  9. Sally, family, and friends,

    I’m so sorry for your loss! Words cannot express how all of us feel of the loss of Doug.

    All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you find comfort with all the great memories and humor that Doug provided over the years.

  10. We are sorry for your loss. Doug was such a great guy. He was loved by many and will be missed by all of us. Sally, Matt and family, and Derek, know that the entire Howell Family sends their love and we are all praying for you. Love Dwayne and Aunt Deanna

  11. I met Doug through my brother-in-law Sean. I loved him the minute I met him–fun-caring and a good listener. I always loved getting the texts ” Doug and I are at Biggs”. On most occasions I just did a u turn in the middle of the street and headed that way. You could walk in and your drink was on the table and your conversation picked up right where you left off the last time. Doug had a heart of gold. I will forever be thankful I got to know him. Godspeed to you Doug–go have a drink with Levi!


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