Timothy Lee “Tim” Abbott, 71, passed away on October 1, 2026.
Tim was born on August 14, 1955, in Dodge City, Kansas, to Jesse and Jeanette Abbott. He grew up alongside his brothers, David, Daryl, Gregory, and Andy, and his sister, Jennifer. His family spent part of his childhood in Jetmore, Kansas, before eventually moving to Wichita. Tim graduated from Bishop Carroll High School in 1974.
Tim spent approximately 40 years working in construction. Over the course of his career, he built, remodeled, and repaired hundreds of homes throughout the area. Working with his hands was simply part of who Tim was, and retirement never completely took that away from him. Even at 71, he was still taking on projects and was working on siding his own home right up until the day he passed away.
Tim was a lifelong sports fan. He loved the Baltimore Orioles and Kansas City Chiefs, but his greatest sports passion was Wichita State Shocker basketball. A devoted Shocker fan, Tim held season tickets beginning with the 2002–2003 season and spent more than two decades cheering on the Shockers.
As much as Tim enjoyed sports himself, nothing compared to watching his sons compete. He was incredibly proud of Chris and his college baseball career; Nick and his high school and college cross country and baseball careers; and Troy and his basketball career at Southwestern College and later overseas. Through countless games, meets, seasons, wins, and losses, Tim was a constant presence. He rarely, if ever, missed an opportunity to be there supporting his sons from the stands or sidelines.
That devotion continued when Tim became a grandfather. He loved watching Mason and Wesley play sports and could often be found on the sidelines cheering them on—and offering a little coaching along the way. Some of his favorite times with his grandsons were also the simple ones: having them over to swim in the backyard pool, taking them to activities throughout Wichita, and simply being involved in their lives.
Outside of family and sports, Tim enjoyed golfing and fishing. Whether he was on the golf course, fishing, watching a game, working on a house, or spending time with his family, Tim was happiest staying active and being around the people and things he cared about.
Tim is survived by his wife, Carolyn Abbott; his sons, Chris (Kim) Abbott, Nick (Tina) Abbott, and Troy Baker; his grandchildren, Mason and Wesley; Judy Abbott, mother of Chris and Nick; his brothers, David (Wilma) Abbott, Daryl (LouAnn) Abbott, and Gregory Abbott; and his sister, Jennifer DeVaney.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Jesse and Jeanette Abbott, and his brother, Andrew “Andy” Abbott, who passed away in 1979.
Memorial Service will be at 3:00 p.m., Saturday, October 10, 2026, at Downing & Lahey West Mortuary. The service will be live streamed.
Services
Memorial Service: Saturday, October 10, 2026 3:00 pm
Downing & Lahey West Mortuary
10515 W. Maple
Wichita, KS 67209








I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all and praying for you during this difficult time. He was a special guy and I know he will be missed.
He was a great Grandpa.
I know the boys really loved him alot.
They loved the things he always took them too.
He will be missed by all who knew him.
Rest in peace Tim.
Dennis and Birdie Harkness
NIck
I am sorry for your loss. Angela and I always enjoyed spending those long baseball weekends. Tim was a great man and was such a great leader for the boys. I will always remember Tim
as a great friend.
I went to grade school and high school friends of Tim. When we were in 5 and 6 grade atSt. Francis we both raised rabbits and shared stories. I have nothing but great memories of Tim. May he RIP.
Carolyn. So sorry for your loss! Tim was an exceptional person and we really loved him! He would do anything for anyone and was very impressed with all of his skills! Will always remember him for building out our nap shelf at the beach which we now use all the time! I thought about building that shelf for a year and he built it out in one afternoon! One of Kathy’s favorite spots to relax! Please let us know what you need and please stay close to us! Love you guys! Paul
Rest in peace Tim and my best wishes to your family. The Shockers are gonna miss you!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family rest in peace Tim
Nick,
So sorry for the passing of Tim. Tim was an amazing person and will be missed by a lot of people. We have so many fond memories of him and your mom and the entire Tigers Baseball team that he coached for 10 years. He was a great coach and loved his team. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kim Palacio & Family
I don’t even know where to begin. Tim was my baseball coach and a second Dad to me for 15 plus years. He was an amazing man and I learned a lot from him. I will cherish all the time I had with him. From Toronto Lake trips, baseball tournaments and sleepovers. Rest in Peace Tim.
My name is Tony Molina I just now found out about Tim s passing. Have known him for years, when I worked at Star Lumber saw Tim a lot. Always had a smile, very sad to hear about his passing. Always had a great smile, always made time to stop and chat. Great person. I will pray for him.
Angie and I just got word a few minutes ago (10/13) and are just heart broken. I enjoyed all the years we coached little league baseball and basketball!
Tim had such a huge heart! Our thoughts and prayers are with the family!
Mitch Chance